I get the feeling this might be a bit of a long shot on here, but I’d rather be upfront about what I want than give anyone a false impression. I’m not just looking to get pegged, I’m looking for someone to fall in love with, get married to, and spend the rest of my life with.

Here’s a couple photos of me:

https://imgur.com/aittWmW

https://imgur.com/X3CWWs8

I'm 5'8", 235lbs and getting leaner as I continue my fitness journey.

Current circumstances: I'm a respiratory therapist at a major hospital in Las Vegas. I came here for the job and to be closer to family. I'm hoping to make Las Vegas my permanent home, but since my job allows me to work pretty much anywhere there's a hospital in the US or Canada, I'm willing to relocate for the right person.

Non-kinky interests: My major interests include learning languages (I speak Japanese pretty fluently, conversational in Mandarin and Spanish, and I know enough to get in trouble in a few others), Acting and singing (I've got a million characters and accents in my head, and my 1st major musical influence is probably Freddy Mercury), history, geography, critical thinking and epistemology. I like to cook all sorts of things, but lately I've had a bit of a penchant for one pot and slow cooker meals (love my instantpot) I'm really into being crafty and making my own whenever circumstances allow (I've made my own kimchi, my own rice based alcohol, my own charcoal, and I hope to pursue many other projects) Ideally, I'd like to transition from healthcare to being a full time farmer in where I can basically live off the land, currently divided on being an urban or traditional rural farmer. I'm also a bit of a weeb and a gamer. I'm a big animal lover, especially parrots. As part of my fitness journey I've gained quite an interest in kettlebells as well.

Kinky interests/vision for the relationship: If you look at other personals I’ve put out, I’m pretty candid about having a mommydom kink, but I realize that can be a huge turn off for a lot of people, and the more I think about it, I think I could be happy in a relationship without that dynamic, as long as my future person enjoyed being more of a gentledom in the bedroom and was really into pegging. I'm not looking to jump into anything too fast, and I want my future marriage to be about way more than just the sex, but I think people who say you can have a happy marriage without a satisfying sex life are absolutely kidding themselves. If this world were perfect, my person wouldn't just be my wife but she would also be my partner in creating the agricultural enterprise that allows me to quit healthcare for good.

Pluses but not requirements being into combat sports/martial arts being into any kind of weight training wants to learn to speak another language or can teach me one likes trying new and unfamiliar food atheist or at least doesn't see religion as important

Requirements between 25 and 50 years old Loving, somewhat smothering and very physically affectionate

Thank you for reading this far! If you want to get to know me better, tell me about yourself and what you're looking for in a relationship.