African American male in the NYC area who is looking to give oral on a regular basis. In other words, and oral FWB. Not looking to do anything else.

Why am I posting here? TLDR: I haven't been dating lately and could use a buddy.

More detailed version: Well, for the last 4 years I've been having Covid related health issues and finally recovering. If you know what Long Covid is then you'll understand. During that time I've had limited dating interaction so my sex life has pretty much dried up. But now that recovery is almost here, I was looking forward to more regular dating. But then it hit me that I would be spending the next year or so making up for the time I've lost over the past four years. I have/had a high stress job that demands a lot of time and I realize that means no regular dating. So the next best thing would be a FWB. I love giving oral and find it stress relieving as well. So as long as you enjoy receiving it, then it's a win-win, so figure why not concentrate on that.

About you: Looking for someone who loves receiving it as much as I love doing it. Otherwise open on pretty much everything else about you as long as you're single, clean as I am, and over 30. 30 is not a hard limit but I find that people under 30 tend to be incompatible with me, but I'm open as long as you're mature.

About me: I'm sure most people just jumped straight to this part (lol). Single, no kids, lives alone, laid-back work in STEM, 5'8", African American, Chocolate Skin, Glasses, Shaved head, medium build, mild dad bad due to the last 4 years. Own a car but have not been driving for the reasons previously discussed. Pre-pandemic I traveled from time to time. I get tested every time I go to the doctor even though I obviously haven't been doing anything (habit I guess).

I would prefer to put emphasis on our intimate interactions, but if it grows into something more I would love that too. I'm also ok if it's just a one time thing.

I'm open to just having a convo as well and seeing what happens. Not to put a negative note on this, but you should know I'm eager but I'm not desperate. Hoping to hear from you.

Edit: I am open to more but we would have to discuss it first.