Hello, Reddit.

I thought I might try this again... I'm single, and have a craving I can’t shake. I miss foreplay and the feeling of going down on a woman, especially when she climaxes from my attention. I’ve been told I have a “service kink", though I am not subservient, and love having control when it’s voluntarily surrendered by my partner.

More about me: I'm a single, professional, good-looking, fun, fit, and nerdy/nice guy. I'm 6' 1" tall, 190 lbs, 100% clean and clean-shaven, and usually sport a jeans and t-shirt look (a body pic is attached to my bio, or you can check my recent comments).

I have a lot going on with work right now (aggressively competing for a promotion), plus I'm pursuing a degree and taking care of aging parents as I navigate the bureaucracy of Medicare. My situation prevents any real 'traditional dating' (*even Tinder has been a letdown) and I'm way too long out of the ‘game’ to have any idea how to navigate 'hook-up' culture these days, without running the risk of hurting someone emotionally (which is not anything I want to do).

I've been single since before COVID hit, and honestly, I have been hungrily fantasizing about doing this for some time. Long story short (well, sort of)... I would love to meet a fun and happy woman who desires a man's attention. Reciprocity would always be appreciated but will never be necessary or expected. I would insist that you set all the rules and boundaries, and I will respect and follow them. I just want to experience the incredibly masculine feeling of leaving someone satisfied, as well as the feeling of being desired, again.

My job is amazing, and I have a lot of flexibility with my schedule, but I do take care of my folks in the mornings and the evenings (when the in-home nurses aren't around), as well as take online classes on the weekends for my degree. That being said, I would love to find someone who would love periodic visits as often (or as infrequently) as you want and we can make happen, for a relaxed and passionate hour (give or take) of my attention. I am not clingy or the jealous type, and understand what my role would be in someone's life.

About you: I would love to meet someone who is D/D free and absolutely loves receiving oral. Ideally, you would be able to climax from this (since it is what I miss most). Your desire to return the favor, or do more is completely optional, and again, you make all the rules.I don’t have a “type”. I see the beauty in most people as long as they are kind of heart. Confidence is my biggest turn-on! I would love a woman who knows she is sexy, knows exactly what she wants from me, is willing to ask (or even demand it), and would be willing to relax and receive it as if she knew she deserved it!

I live in Mass (metro west area), and My office is in Providence. Ideally, women within a 45-minute drive would be nice (though willing to drive more for the right person), and living in the Providence area would be amazing, though far from a requirement!

Your looks, age, marital/dating status, grooming preferences, and body type are WAY less important than your craving for attention! (...and possibly also having a sense of humor. It would be nice to be able to laugh a little about this arrangement... don't you think?).

Just be someone that wants to be taken care of, and know that you deserve it!

Reach out if you would like to know more. Happy to answer any questions you may have.