This is probably the biggest fails of the year. I haven’t posted a fail but this one is kinda worth it and I just gotta get it off my chest lol.

Anyways, I started messaging this lady about a month or 2 ago. The first time we were going to meet up fell through she did say she was shy so I should’ve taking that into account but she was very pretty and I enjoyed texting with her.

We reschedule for the day after Christmas. She doesn’t have a car so I pick her up about 45 min away from me. We went to a nice restaurant and had a bomb ass conversation, she’s just as passionate about movies as me. We could literally talk for hours without getting bored.

We were hours into our conversation and she was a few beers deep and starting to get tipsy/drunk so we ended the night at around 2am without it being anything more but we reschedule again for yesterday.

I setup a whole date because she mentioned anxiety and i asked her if she just wanted me to plan everything and she goes along for the ride, which she agreed to and supposedly was very excited for.

I told her to be ready at 6pm because we had reservations at 7pm. I picked an Italian restaurant since she said she liked pasta. After dinner we had more reservations for minigolf at 8:30pm then I got a room so that we could do the nasty and maybe afterwards go to karaoke.

I pick her up and we get coffee, she said she was tired from something. Conversation is bomb again we are cracking jokes and having a good time at least that’s how I perceived things. We get to the restaurant and things still seem to be going great. I really enjoyed her company.

We get to mini golf and we chat and are shit talking each other. I won the first round and was expecting to either play another or bounce for the other plans. It’s around 9:50, 10pm at this point. Out of nowhere she says that she needs to get home around 11pm. I was shocked at first because to me the night was still young and we had literally just purchased another round of minigolf as she was telling me.

We play our last game and we are still chatting and taking nothing seems to be out of the ordinary. After the game we close off the bar tab and head home. She said she needed to get back to talk to her roommates or something.

I drop her off and I’m just kinda dumbfounded. For all intents and purposes, I know this is strictly from my standpoint but everything was completely fine and she was laughing having s good time the entire time. She was awkward but I never got the feeling she was uncomfortable.

I guess the moral of the story is dudes don’t plan too hard for someone you don’t know very well and just be honest about your intentions and plans for the evening.