Heya, you can call me Rori! Been awhile since i last posted, I've had some life events happen but I feel like I'm back in a place where I'm looking for this sort of thing again (in a good way) so shooting my shot!

I'm looking for something more meaningful than a one night stand, but that doesn't necessarily mean romantic. I prefer to know my partners and have at least some sort of friendship before engaging, I'm potentially Demi, but I don't think I have the data to firmly classify for sure. That doesn't mean we need to talk for more than a week or 2 before I'm comfortable, but just being upfront that I'm looking for some sort of connection be it romantic or platonic.

I'm a 5'7", HWP, white nerd with shoulder length black hair and brown eyes. I work a fairly physical job so while I do have a bit of a dad bod, I'm very physically fit. In my free time my hobbies include music (listening AND playing), cooking, and most things videogames. In general I'll click with you though if you enjoy listening about my hobbies even if you don't share them, and are passionate talking about yours even if I don't share them.

In the bedroom I love love LOVE giving oral (not big on receiving but am happy to if that's something you similarly enjoy), and enjoy general physical intimacy like kissing and holding hands (especially during sex) even if that wouldn't be standard for the outside the bedroom relationship. As far as kinks go I'm primarily vanilla, but very comfortable at least having the conversation about things beyond that. I've ranged between "sure i can do that" to "not comfortable" with most kinks i've tried, but if you have kinks that are major to you, I can at least guarantee you won't weird me out with open and honest communication. I've been around this part of the internet enough I've heard it all before.

As for what I'm looking from you, interest in the above obviously, within half a decade of my age, and living toward the Maryland half of the DMV area. Historically I've not found common denominators on what I'm attracted to, so all body types/ethnicity are welcome!

Now, logistics. I'm currently working 45-50 hour weeks so I am a bit strapped for time to meetup. I have sundays off and can probably swing any weekday evening, but would prefer to not travel more than 30 minutes or so given the time/energy that takes up out of my week. I live alone (with a cat, headsup allergy people) and am happy to host, or as said above happy to travel anywhere nearby. I can generally respond to messages during the workday, so while I want to be upfront I don't have as much free time as some others, I think a sexual/romantic partner would be a valuable addition to my life right now and I'm willing to put in the work that takes.

Your pic gets mine, and I'm also happy to share myself first after we've talked a bit. If reddit's not your preferred platform, I also have Discord, Kik, and snapchat in order of preference. Hope to hear from you soon!