Heya, you can call me Rori! As the title says, I was having a talk with a friend about bedroom preferences and they suggested I had a romance kink. That is to say, in the bedroom i love kissing, handholding, or just generally anything that's more intimate rather than sexual during sex time. That isn't to say I'm looking for romance here, just someone who's ok incorporating faux romance into this sorta thing.

That said, I do want to be up front that I'm in a long distance ethically non-monogamous relationship. I have a wonderful girlfriend but work has forced me to move far enough that all that's realistic is visits a few times a year. As much as she loves and supports me, there's only so far that intimate relationships can go over discord, so I'm seeking a local FWB for cuddling and hopefully more. We have a enough trust where she's fine knowing nothing about this, but she's also fine speaking with you and vouching for me and/or my skills if that's what makes you most comfortable. Some people have also asked this, so I wanted to add we were ENM from the start and not as a result of the move.

Me: I'm a 5'7", HWP, white nerd with shoulder length black hair and brown eyes. I work a fairly physical job so while I do have a bit of a dad bod, I'm very physically fit. In my free time my hobbies include music (listening AND playing), cooking, and most things videogames. I'm generally very good at clicking with people when we have compatible personalities regardless of shared interests though, so I'd encourage you to reach out and start chatting if you're unsure! As much as I'm looking for a hookup here, I'm also looking for a friend so us getting along is a priority.

In the bedroom, I'm fairly vanilla although generally open to most mild kinks (although I do draw a line at giving/receiving pain, either physical or mental). Obviously i enjoy conventional penetration (me on top, you on top, doggy are the general 3), I LOVE giving oral (to the point where if that's all you want to do i'm cool with it), but I'm not the biggest fan of receiving (but willing if it's something you love. Also as mentioned, romance, although exploring this with someone knew I think I would draw a line at fake "i love you's".

As for you, all I'm really asking is that you be within a few years of my age, open to a physical relationship, and interested in meeting regularly. Obviously me might not click mentally and/or physically, but I have no real common denominators for who I click with or who I'm attracted to.

Now logistics. I live in the Montgomery county area, I'm lucky enough to be able to afford a solo apartment, and am happy to host. If you prefer to host, I'm happy to drive anywhere near the beltway! Additionally I am DDF, and Vaccinated.

I generally prefer reddit messaging to reddit chat, and if reddit is not your preferred platform for communication, I also have Discord, Kik, and Snapchat in order of preference and am happy to move over to any of those after exchanging a few messages. If you read this whole thing, tell me your favorite dessert! Or desert, to each their own. I hope to hear from you soon!