Excuse my ignorance if this topic has been discussed before in this subreddit, but I've been thinking about it a bit lately and would love to hear the thoughts from others.

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When I first discovered this subreddit, I was both aroused and delighted to find a place on the Internet that I percieved to be focused on a woman's pleasure. Admittedly, I do realize that there are many men who get off on eating pussy, pleasuring their partner/making someone happy, and other aspects of muffdiving, breast play, and eating ass. But, right or wrong, I'd percieved this to be a place where the collective focus was on getting ready and willing women off.

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Then, I noticed a trend in most success stories going further than just muff diving -- whether that meant the woman reciprocating by sucking the muff-diver off or full-on penatrative sex. I totally respect the autonomy for two (or more!) consenting adults to do whatever they want. This isn't intended to be a discussion about people doing whatever they damn well please but rather a conversation about the general cultural norms of this subreddit.

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Along with the above, I've been seeing plenty of posts where guys say things like, "open to reciprocation" or "I'm hung", and I've started to wonder if the norm and the culture of this subreddit is that of reciprocation or mutual release of some sort. I'm curious to know your thoughts or take an (extremely informal/totally non-scientific) poll of whether or not you expect or hope for reciprocation when you reply to a post or when you're involved in these encounters.

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My personal curiousity about this comes from the fact that I joined this subreddit because of my own intense pillow princess fantasies and the desire for no-reciprocation desired, pleasure totally 100% focused on me, what-can-I-do-to-please-you-ma'am!? pussy eating and titty sucking. And I'm wondering if this is not (no longer?) the culture of this space.

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Now, don't get me wrong, in an established relationship I'm a super giving, fair, resonable, lets-all-get-what-we-need person. But, I came here because I wanted to explore the pillow princess side of myself that just wanted to get her body and needs taken care of by a fun and friendly stranger. ;)

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I also wonder about other women like myself who might lurk in this subreddit considering asking for some no strings attached oral, but who see so many success posts that go further than just a little muff diving. How do they percieve this space?

Cheers, y'all. Curious to hear your thoughts.