Dear Divers,
I've had many successes (a lot not written about), and a few failures on this sub. Overall, it's been amazing and I choose to take the good with the bad, because that's life! I'm not everyone's cup of tea, just like they aren't mine! Tonight though, was different....
Divers, you should feels as comfortable as we should. But, if something changes, you need to speak up. Open communication is important, and should always be respected by both parties.
After a week of talking, someone from this sub and I chose to meet up tonight. Plans changed a few days ago from me being able to host, to not being able to. He assured me it was fine and I was welcome at his place this weekend. I showed up and everything seemed good. We drank a beer and talked in his kitchen for awhile, until his roommate and a friend came home. Even then, everything was okay. The night progressed and another person showed up and his demeanor changed. After awhile of talking and the original friend leaving, I was asked to leave. I don't know what happened or what changed, but I left immediately.
If you are not in a place that is 100% comfortable for you to host, please don't offer your place. Other arrangements could have been made, or plans could have been postponed. It makes people feel like shit, and that is not the point of this sub.
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