Hey RAOMD!

I'm posting talking about this success with hopes of 2 things, the first being painting you guys a picture (essentially step by step guide) of how a great success came to fruition, and the second being an AMA for anyone to ask questions or advice from me! I've been fortunate to meet many Redditors for both platonic or sexual meetups and want to help upping the success posts seen in the sub!

NOTE: I'm hoping this is a short post, but based on how it's going so far I'm not sure how that is gonna turn out...so here goes!

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NOTE 2: I will not be tagging her in my post unless she gives me the okay, BUT, she did post about the success herself earlier, so you should be able to find it under "Hot"

1) The Meetup!

So, first thing's first, she was the one who messaged me with her message title being "Hi! Looking for a success story!". It was a paragraph essentially telling me what she was looking for, when she was looking for it, and signed it with her name. I had never been messaged directly, as my successes have been from messaging others, so I will say I was a bit happy that I was finally pursued haha

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We chatted for 18 days BEFORE meeting. Sending about 2/3 texts each per day (increased in frequency as the meetup closed in). Might seem little to many but we are both very busy people. Redditors have lives outside of Reddit and it's important to understand that. Early on she told me she'd reply only when she could and I understood. I am very much of the idea that people who are familiar/friends make way better partners in bed, because it means communication is good and you can talk out your wants and needs etc. As the date approached we talked about kinks, and a lot about what she wanted. As a RAOMD this should be for HER pleasure, not mine. I also made it as easy as possible for her by handling the hotel reservations and plans for the night. The whole process of getting to know one another is so that we both feel comfortable, especially her. Please remember that it is very important for both parties to feel SAFE and COMFORTABLE. Without those two aspects it will be hard to have as great experience as possible.

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The night of the meet I checked into the hotel and made sure that there was everything we might need, toys (crop, restraints, and nipple clamps), water, condoms (she told me before hand she was also interested in sex, and it being a meetup condoms were a must even though we are both DDF). When she got to the hotel she freshened up before we headed out for drinks. We spent a lot of time talking, because even though we did speak for a long time prior over text, it's always a bit different. Luckily she was super talkative and didn't seem at all nervous! We eventually finished up and headed back to the room.

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Once back at the room we chatted some more before I showed her the toys I brought, which she seemed super eager to try! Eventually we found ourselves on the bed making out and taking her clothes off. One thing I didn't mention was that she asked me what I'd like to see her in and I told her I loved the color red and lo' and behold, she wore matching bra and panties, which was super sexy. I didn't mention how amazing her body was, perfect nipples, round firm ass, and her pussy was perfect.

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At the end of the night we did some calculations and realized I ate her out for about an hour non stop (besides changing positions and using toys) followed be amazing sex. We also woke up in the middle of the night and repeated everything again, and I honestly wish I had my face buried between her legs even now. Read her post for her point of view! I highly recommend it lol Remember, RAOMD is for HER enjoyment. If a guy is looking to please in hopes of reciprocation, you're in the wrong sub.

NOTE 3: I know I didn't go into much detail of what exactly we did, I want to keep that between her and I, but you can get a sense of how much she enjoyed in her post

2) AMA

Now, after all that, I want to do what I can to help out other Redditors! I know I've been very lucky with how many people I've met up with and want to give advice on how to find/search for success stories.

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The following are quick answers to the most common FAQs:

• Time and Patience are key to finding good successes
• NOTHING is more important than safety, always be as careful as possible
• If you are searching to dive, you are not entitled to ANYTHING nor to ANY responses
• I would always recommend meeting somewhere public first or taking time to get to know somebody and host in a neutral place

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If you got this far, thank you for reading! I really appreciate it :) Happy Diving!

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NOTE 4: I am located in LA and OC! [SUCCESS]