Firstly my names Mark, I'm 33 years old, I'm fairly tall at 6'3 and on the huskier/chubbier side when it comes to my size. I'm more than happy to send a picture early on in a conversation because obviously I understand that physical attraction plays a big part in many people's desires.

About me: I'm a single man who lives on his own (unless you count my cat) and works nights, I'm 4 on and 4 off which gives me a decent chunk of spare time to play around with each week.

My hobbies mainly tend towards the nerdier variety like pc gaming, trading card games, and dungeons and dragons which I usually end up dm'ing for. That's not to say that I don't have non nerdy hobbies, I enjoy long walks or milder hikes, I've been getting much healthier this last year and work out regularly and hey there's nothing wrong with a drink down the pub with some mates.

What I want: My ideal would be chatting a little/a lot (sometimes you just click and the chat doesn't stop) online followed by a meeting in a public place like a cafe or for a drink, it's really important to me that we both feel comfortable and a public space just makes it so much easier to let each other down gently if that need arises.

Provided the online chat and public meet go well I'd love to go back to one of our places and become very intimately familiar with the way you taste, the way you feel and the way you move. Reciprocation isn't necessary, the fact of things is this is raomd not raob, and I genuinely get a lot more out of giving than I do receiving.

I'm also very kink friendly and experienced so if you're the same I'm sure we could change things around a little with some respectful conversation.

About you: I'd prefer if you were between 23-43, this isn't a hard limit so much as a soft suggestion. It would be a plus if you're good at vocalising what feels good, this can be verbal or non verbal. I've no big preferences on looks but I will say I do prefer if you have hair it's on the shorter side just based on past experiences.

Hopefully I've said everything I needed to say, and I look forward to hearing from you!