I posted not long ago looking for someone to break my two year dry streak - success! My libido has been jumpstarted and I’m in the mood for something more regular.

Now what I’m looking for is something ongoing, a friend with benefits situation with emphasis on the friend.

While I realize what this sub is about, I am a demisexual, which means I need a bit of an emotional connection in order to want to get naked with somebody. So conversation, and friendship, is important.

Just really looking for someone to watch tv and movies with, share good food, and have a good time in the bedroom, with an emphasis on my pleasure (but I am open to reciprocation once I know you and like you).

I’m short, overweight, cute face with glasses, I don’t wear makeup at all. I don’t drink but don’t care if you do. I am 420 friendly but otherwise DDF. I live in Delco and work from home so I don’t have much interaction with others and I’m really starting to miss that.

What I am looking for:

First of all, someone who can host somewhere local to me, either with easy parking within an hours drive, or willing to send an uber for me on the regular. That is a dealbreaker. If you can’t host, I’m not interested, no exceptions. It takes a very long time for me to trust someone to let them into my house. I’m not interested in a hotel room unless you really think you’re going to eat that cost on a regular basis. I’m not interested in you if you’re in NYC or DC, please be local to Philly.

You must be single, not interested in anybody stepping out for this.

Someone whose schedule works with mine. I’m free every other weekend (this weekend coming up is free for me) and I am looking for someone who has weekend availability that meshes with mine regularly.

Despite my own out of shape physique, I am most attracted to slim or fit men. I don’t mind facial hair but don’t like big beards. I love men with glasses. I don’t really care how old or how tall you are, although I have not found myself to connect well with anyone under 30 lately.

I’m not really big on actually talking about the sexual act itself. I want to do it but I’m not interested in writing down the details of how it will go down. Nor do I need you to describe to me what you want to do to me. Sexually explicit first messages are a turnoff and will not get a response.

For the record, it’s rare (but not impossible) for me to orgasm without electronics. I do so enjoy the feel of a tongue more than a vibrator though. Looking for someone who is willing to incorporate toys into our fun.

If you’re interested, please include in your first message your favorite song/music to muff dive to, as well as where you live that you’ll be hosting. If you don’t include these two things, I’ll assume you’re not capable of following instructions and therefore not suited to my purpose.

I look forward to hearing from you!