Hello lovely dwellers of the best subreddit ever created. As the year comes to an end, I thought it would be a good self-reflection exercise to write a couple of posts about the wonderful experiences I have been gifted with thanks to the interactions and connections I have made here.

The first of the two success stories (although, chronologically the second) this year happened recently, and this is how it went.

A) Who is she and how it all started:

It was a rainy Saturday afternoon, while out of town, when I entered a shop to browse some items. Somewhere around 1 pm. I took my phone out and saw a Reddit notification for a chat request. I found it odd as, by then, I had not posted for several weeks, but I was excited to see who had reached out.

That’s how I met D. She sent me a chat request letting me know a lot about her, and asking whether I was able to meet soon for drinks and see if we had chemistry. D is considerably younger than me (early 20s) and we’re local to each other (something that had not happened in my previous success stories – All were outside my location). She was very candid and informed me she had no prior sexual experience and was looking for a setting where she was in control of how much would happen.

I replied to her intro message with as much info as I thought was useful, but somehow, I originally thought I would never get another reply. As many male posters would have experienced, one of those cases where maybe she gave a second thought about the idea of meeting a random internet stranger to take care of her intimate needs, and the many potential ways in which that could easily go wrong. When she replied within minutes, I was pleasantly surprised, and mesmerised to learn more about her.

D came across as a very charismatic and cultivated woman, who was eager to experience sensations she had been craving for a while. We exchanged some SFW body pics, and I soon realised I had way less to offer in this exchange. She kindly requested a face pic, which I sent as I mentally prepared for that to be the end of the story. She was happy to go ahead and meet for drinks, and after some more chatting, we scheduled a date on the fifth day since the initial communication (mental note: fifth day is the charm!).

B) How the (first two) meetings went:

-The first date:

As the day we set approached, my excitement to meet D exponentially increased too. We had an availability window from 1-5 pm on a workday, and I was very careful to plan something where we could be always in public, yet at the same time offer some intimate experiences for her to try, whilst always reassuring her she could call it quits anytime.

So, I planned a lunch in a local pub, followed by a cinema session to gradually go from fully public to semi-public contexts. I had never seen her face before, so an hour before our meeting time she sent me a picture of the clothing she was wearing for me to recognise her. Even if all I could see was a coat and a scarf, I was impressed by her fashion style.

My heart was racing outside the pub, and I could not get the thought of ‘What if she doesn’t turn up?’ out from the back of my head. Then I saw her approaching. And I was speechless for some seconds, while looking for the cameras around to break down a cruel joke to me. Nope. She was real. We went in for lunch.

After struggling to get her (third) drink of choice due to my less-than-ideal choice of venue, we had a look at the menu and ordered some food. She was very shy but very polite from the very beginning (I don’t blame her. It was her fist date, and that date was me!) but I brought up some conversation topics (some of which were not great choices and made me look like an idiot) and I was intrigued to learn more about D, and she was eloquent and taught me several interesting facts. I was getting gradually closer to her, and finally gently held her hand between mine. I could feel how nervous she was, while trying to reassure her I would back up if she wanted. She got comfortable and even moved slightly towards me. That moment is one of my best memories to date.

We enjoyed our drinks and meal, as intimacy gradually increased (careful selection of a secluded table at the back of the pub was key). I gently caressed her arms. Placed a hand on her thigh. Kisses on her cheeks, earlobes, and neck. She was pulling my hand up, which I interpreted as her getting more and more comfortable. We got handsy for a while, until the movie was about to start.

Then we went for the second bit of our date, the film. A cosy, small cinema with sofas for couples, a movie at a non-peak time, an almost empty screen and choosing the sofa on the last row, diagonally opposite to the entrance was a superb location. It’s fair to say we both had a lovely time and a) I dared to do things in such a setting I never did before and, b) none of us could tell what the movie was about. We parted ways and texted back later. We were both happy to schedule a second date as soon as possible!

-The second date:

As our excitement grew, we were counting the days for the next meeting. I asked her if she would like me to book a hotel room this time, and she agreed. I checked in and was disappointed at the lack of room service for drinks, so I quickly went to grab some bottled drinks nearby. As soon as I came back to the room, she texted to say she was in the lobby, so I quickly went down again to greet her. Just to be amazed once again by her mere presence.

As we entered the room, I was very mindful to make her feel safe for the first time she would be in a totally private setting with a partner. We agreed my lower body clothes would stay on as reassurance. We chatted for a bit and started to build her desire. Shortly after, we were enjoying the whole premise of this subreddit. What a wonderful time she gifted me with. After several orgasms, we cuddled for a while, and she fell asleep in my arms (she did tell me later on she gets sleepy after 2-3 orgasms). The feeling of fulfilment and sheer happiness I felt cuddling her and looking after her is my best memory of that day (and one of the bests in my whole life). She did not notice the happy tears at the corner of my eyes as she woke up, while I was thinking ‘Thank you for trusting me. I will never let you down’.

We cuddled for a bit more, looking into each other’s eyes and discussing what she liked about our encounter, and ideas she wanted to experience for our next time. We parted ways again and have been texting often and have already scheduled our third date in the near future.

C) What the future holds:

As part of our texting, D has shared with me a lot of ideas regarding fantasies and kinks she had always wanted to experience but lacked a trusted partner to do so. She is excited about remaining in control and picking exactly what she wants each time. From my side, as the older participant, I am delighted to have been chosen by such a wonderful woman, and it is my absolute pleasure to use my experience to give her the structure and preparation needed to safely enjoy kinkier sex.

We plan on meeting as often as our schedules allow, and it is fair to say we’re both happy to become friends with benefits and nurture a beautiful rapport. Her safety and enjoyment will always be my utmost priorities, and creating a safe, controlled environment for D to spread her wings and experience everything she ever wanted has become a life goal for me.

D) Final words and personal reflections:

It must have been 5-6 years when I first came across this subreddit. As someone whose favourite act is giving oral sex to women, I could not believe its existence. ‘Heaven on Earth!’ I thought for the initial years I was a silent lurker. Wondering if someday I would be one of the selected lucky participants of a success story. And here we are!

To the women reading, I would like to acknowledge it is not easy to trust a random man to be that vulnerable with and allow them to take care of your most intimate needs. It must feel daunting just to reply to an ad. Men are dangerous. Hopefully, maybe reading this will give you the courage to reach out to posts in your area, and lead to wonderful experiences you deserve to live.

To my fellow men posting here, I know how fruitless of a task it can be. Competence is high, and even 5-6 posts can go without a single reply. Or it could be a scammer. Or an initial reply that then becomes a dead end. But if you persevere, it is worth every effort. Be kind, compassionate, a good listener and a gentleman. Respect her and her boundaries. We’re here because we all love pleasuring a woman. But always remember it’s all about HER experience. We get to enjoy the benefits as a byproduct, so it’s a win-win.

To myself, I can only count myself lucky. Not only I have enjoyed several success stories (despite this being the first time I write one), but in all cases the encounters have led to meeting women who have changed my life. And has me puzzled as to how a regular guy like me attracts women who are way above myself. It is my absolute pleasure to offer the experiences they are after, and to nurture the wonderful rapports than naturally arise as we progress.

Thank you for reading my success story. And apologies for my inability to condense all this in what should have been a shorter text. Merry Xmas, Happy 2025 and, above all, happy muff dives to everyone!