Maybe at this point in my life I am realizing I am much more of a people pleaser than I thought. Though recently thats become much more about pleasing. I’ve been alive long enough to know how much I enjoy going down on a woman. Between traveling for the job and the job itself, I don't want to be too busy to go after the things I enjoy.

Maybe you’ve never had someone go down on you? Maybe the person who did was not patient, or maybe not eager to for you to tell them how you like it most? Maybe you felt selfish asking him to spend that long down there?

I’m not that guy. I’m the guy who wants you to be selfish and let us work together to get you to that orgasm you deserve.

So let’s fast forward to now, and what we both may be looking for. I’m a person that genuinely enjoys going down, and giving. So I’m looking for someone who maybe has not had that kind of experience before, for whatever reason that may be. Or someone who hasn’t had great experiences in the past and wants someone who is patient and communicates. Or perhaps you just really enjoy when someone goes down on you.

Ultimately, I'm not going to ask to have sex with you, or anything beyond just going down on you. I'm 32M, single, ddf, and spend much more time traveling than I wanted to at this stage in my life.

I’d much rather find the right person, than rush into something. I am happy to meet somewhere nearby first and make sure neither of us are an axe murderer, then host at my hotel if we're feeling good? I don’t even care if I sound like a broken record for saying this, but you being comfortable is the most important thing. Not to spill the secrets I’ve learned, but I’m aware getting you to that magical feeling is as much about getting to there, as it is going down there.

I will be in LA for this whole week, even if you're on the fence, send a message. We’re both adults, if we chat and don’t feel it, we can say best of luck and continue on our way. Let's talk and see what the vibe is?