✨Rare genuine nice guy here, please read ✨

I'm 42 years old, long term married but unhappy, completely dead bedroom and I am more or less trapped in the relationship for various reasons (property & debt issues being the biggest). I'm clean (only had one sexual partner before), white medium build with shaved head.

I'm seeking a woman for a discreet long term in-real-life FWB relationship. Maybe you're also in a relationship or marriage, looking for fun and need discretion too?

I'm not getting any affection (not even a cuddle!) so if you're quite affectionate then that's a bonus for me, I am responsive to that and will be affectionate back.

Whilst body type isn't an issue for me, I am particularly attracted to small or petite women, but that's absolutely not a deal breaker so please don't let that put you off - I'm keen to explore FWB with someone who I click with, looks are just a bonus for me 🙂

I enjoy dance music (but like most other music too tbh, a good tune's a good tune! I go to Melting Pot, Glitterbox, Colours events etc). Also enjoy walking, running, gym (bonus points if you're a David Lloyd Renfrew member - but be aware so are my family so discretion still required), cycling, hillwalking.

I'm tee total (no drink or anything else)

If you're in the Paisley, Renfrewshire, or Glasgow area, DM me for a chat and be willing to verify with a photo (you don't need to show face yet, I won't either until we know we're clicking and are prepared to meet, then I'm happy to show).

Please be genuine! I can (usually) spot a bot or a time waster pretty quickly - so to help give me assurance that you're genuine, please include the word 'Independent' in your DM.

I can very rarely host, so outdoor meet, car meet, or round at yours would be best. But when I can host, i"ll let you know, but it'll only be couple of times a year overnight, most other times it's short-notice windows of opportunity.

For discretion, communication needs remain on here in the first instance. I am not on social media, I don't even have WhatsApp (not a fan of it). If we click, then for absolute discretion we can take our conversation to another completely private messaging app altogether. I have access to 'Session' and 'Threema', but if you use another app, let me know what one.

Please know, my family has Find My Friends - and the shared car I drive has an app which shows the journeys taken on a map, so we need to bear this in mind (all part of the fun!) :)

My vision of our FWB relationship is we meet every so often - we can agree on frequency and location, I am free once per week midweek, and occasional weekends - all during the day. I propose we meet at locations I 'usually' drive to first, ensuring we click before deciding to go out further such as a longer hillwalks (with 'work' of course) or even a 'date' somewhere 🙂

Nighttime meets would be rare unless there is an event on that we can go to together (in which case we'd conjure up a scenario that we're going 'with work' or 'with running club / gym buddy' or similar). For bigger nights out my mates might also be there, but we can still catch up, just ensure that we share we're just buddies from gym, running, work etc - only FWB in private ;)

We also don't need to live out any 'benefits' at every meet either (unless you want to, in which case of course I'm game!), I'd love to explore the Friends element as much as the Benefits.

Do get in touch if this interests you. I am keen for us to click and have some great, sneaky fun. The sooner the better :)