I had posted on several subreddits looking for an exclusive arrangement to get out of my sexual funk and get some much needed O’s. 

After being disappointed with the low quality messages, I decided to reach out to someone whom I’ll call M. I found his post sincere and relatively wholesome compared to all of the low quality DMs I was getting (think: unsolicited dick pics, guys in dead bedrooms or relationships, fuck boys looking to jump from their current FWB to me; guys who were cagey about sharing STD results). 

Amidst all this noise, M stood out. From the first message we exchanged, he put me at ease by answering all of my questions; not getting defensive or invalidating my concerns; and being respectful of my boundaries. To top it off, he asked me about my preferences and likes. In short, he came across as a thoughtful gentleman. After some back and forth online, we met in person to grab tea. After talking to him for about an hour, I felt comfortable enough to bring him back to my place. Over the next several weeks, he explored every inch of my body, giving me toe curling, throbbing, scream inducing, wet orgasms using everything god gave him. Plus, I appreciate the fact that he’s also pleasant to be around, so it’s a win-win. Can you blame me for wanting more? 

We have plans to continue seeing each other for the time being. Whatever happens, I’m thankful to M for getting me out of my sexual funk and delivering on the ethos of this sub.

I wanted to share my experience to highlight that there are gems like M out there, albeit in a sea of coal.

I’m deleting my account soon but will leave this post up for just a bit in the hopes that it’ll encourage folks to never settle for anything less.