About me

Ahoy, hoy!

I am a 30M, former film maker turned IT wizard with dry sense of humor that's marinated in goofiness. Standing at 5'6" with a moderate-slim build, a light beard and dark hair; I am softly spoken, a hard-worker, a good listener and a introspective introvert who has a tendency to think deeply about things. I am also a non-smoker and a rare drinker who values honesty almost to a fault, reliability, patience, kindness and (emotional) intelligence. Irish and living in Dublin, but will consider traveling or hosting in a hotel room for the right person.

I am soft in the streets and even softer in the sheets. I like to give love through gentle acts of service and quality time, but secretly receptive to compliments/praise and a playful touch, so make of what you will with this powerful knowledge. 😘

How people would describe me

Friendly observers have regarded me as kind, dedicated, calm, intelligent, "really decent", organised, diplomatic and sincere - But please feel free to take these for what they're worth. I even received a temporary ban for being 'too cute'. Serves me right and now I know better to read the rules of muffland more closely!

What I'm looking for

Up until recently, I've been patiently looking for my person. Since my curiosity is getting the better of me, I would like to take my time to explore and learn how to please from the right person who is open-minded, gentle, warm and patient - Especially when it comes to intimacy. Happy to take direction, acquire experience, satiate cravings and have something to playback in my mind when I'm by my lonesome at night. Preferably with a non-smoker who is okay with taking things slow and being the big spoon. I really have a soft spot for soft, kind and smart goofballs. 🥺 It's essential that they are drug and disease free (DDF) and single.

Even we don't end up fumbling under the sheets - I'd be delighted to get to know you to see if we click in other ways. Totally down for sharing hot chocolate or something if you're genuinely interested.

Looking forward to hearing from you! 🦊