I decided to try out RAOMD a few of years ago. I had no expectations, but figured who knows, maybe I meet someone fun and we can have a great experience together when I provide them oral. As luck would have it, it’s actually worked out several times. Wanted to post them, and if these experiences resonate with anyone, maybe add to the list.

1)Took a long shot and reached out to someone who’s post had been up for a little while. My timing was good because they were online and we had a pleasant conversation. We decided to move forward so a few days later we met up. She got off three times. She actually want to do other things with me, but since we hadn’t talked about it previously, I declined until the next time. Our timing never seemed to work out again, though we tried. She later got into a solid monogamous relationship, and I’m happy for her.

2) One was someone from out of town staying in the city who responded to a post I put up. We met up for a vibe check near where she was staying, and after a really nice time, she invited back to her hotel. I went down on in a bunch of different positions, ate her ass, and she wanted to watch me cum so I got myself off after she had cum at least four times. She invited me back the next night for her last night in town.

3) One person posted a comment on a post I made. So I reached out to them and they were looking for an ongoing thing. Pussy eating on demand if she thought I did a good enough job. Well it must have been pretty good because we repeated several times where she texted me to see if I was available. Our schedules haven’t aligned in a while unfortunately

4) One had never experienced receiving oral before and nervously responded to a post I made. She came four times. It was a really fun experience for the both of us.

5) Another one was a bit shy, and we took our time talking and getting comfortable. When we did finally get together she would ask me to undress a bit of a time. Once I was naked she was feeling confident enough to give things a go. We started on the couch, me kneeling in front of her. Later she sat on my face. She was a squirter, which was really fun and a first for me.

6) This one I didn’t think would happen, and was so happy it did. We actually started talking more than a year prior, and went out on a few dates, but never got to the actual muff diving as they were not over their ex yet and wasn’t feeling it. No problem at all. Reached out later just to say hi because I genuinely enjoyed talking with them and it turns out I caught them just like a week before they were moving out of state. She was interested in picking up where we left off in terms of providing oral, so we got together a few days later. Great conversation and eventually we went upstairs. She said she didn’t always cum from oral and I said its ok if she didn’t, I just wanted her to have a good time without pressure. She ended up cumming twice and I ate her ass too. Was a really fun time, and while she has now moved, we text and say hi and I’m glad to be able to call her a friend.

1. It had been a while since I last met up with someone from roamd, but I gave it a shot again. Ended up connecting with someone who was in town for just a few days. Met up at their hotel bar to chat and see how we got along. Things were good so we went back up to her room. She was a little nervous, but it didn’t take too long for us to get comfortable. She had a couple of orgasms while I remained clothed, lots of touching. It was honestly hard to leave but I did have to get back home.

2. i put up another post on a whim and had someone reach out to me. She was very self assured and took a more dominant role. I suggested first eating her out while I was on my knees in front of her, which was an idea she really loved. When we got together, she came over, she had me kneel in front of her and I slowly kissed and worshipped her, first through her underwear until I slid those off. Later she laid back on the bed while I got her off. Then sitting on my face. Then laying on her stomach. Then sitting on my face again. We took breaks and the she’d want more. It was fantastic and fun, with lots of good conversation and silliness too.

These successes took patience to find, but were all totally worth it. I really enjoy providing oral, get tested regularly and like to talk about expectations and desires so we are on the same page. So many interactions are fraught with expectations and pressure. By taking the need or want for reciprocation out of it, I think it lets us both just let go and enjoy the experience. I’ve been on the receiving end of that before and it was amazing. But I also really enjoy giving, genuinely enjoy providing oral. There’s an intimacy even that I find joyful. Allowing the other person to just lean into their own pleasure without having to think about anything else is something I find really amazing.

Combine that with a good and fun conversation, and that’s a really great time.

I hope anyone reading this finds exactly what they are looking for. And if you think I may be a match, I’d love to hear from you. Take care and have fun.