About me: bottom-heavy hourglass shaped, plus-sized mom bod. 5'4." Soft. Thick thighs, big ass, big boobs. Purple hair. I'm not everyone's cup of tea and that's ok!

What I want:

Mutual attraction. Enthusiasm.

Someone to get to know via text and meet up with, I'll lay back and relax while they take their time making me cum until I've had enough. I'd prefer regular or semi-regular meetups; not really looking for a one time thing. Penetration does not make me cum, so no funny business, thinking you're being cute cuz it'll make me cum. You're not and it won't.

I'd like to actually get to know you, and I'd like you to want to know me too. I'm not opposed to becoming friends or even to it becoming more than that, but I'm not specifically trying to find a relationship.

Someone who understands what NO RECIPROCATION means. If you mention it, hint at it, make any implications, or give any indication that you think reciprocation is a consideration, I'm out. If I ever have the desire to provide reciprocation, you are the first person I'll tell.

Someone who can handle open communication about expectations and desires.

Someone who understands that there can be a lot more involved in making a woman cum than just diving right in, if he wants to do it right.

Who you are: Single. I'm not saying we're headed for marriage, but I'm not interested in being involved in someone else's monogamous marriage either.

Big and strong. It's a turn on. Skinny and/or "fit" guys that appreciate and adore bigger women are SOOOOO hot too, just know that I'm not a small girl.

Confident in your ability to enthusiastically pleasure me, but willing to listen to what I like and the feedback I give. When I tell you what feels good... it's not a suggestion I'm making in case you think it'll work for me.... I know what feels good. I'd love it if you tried something new on me that has never failed you before, but DON'T do it when I tell you I'm getting close or I'm about to cum.

Don't be intimidated by toys. They're a tool, not competition.

Don't be afraid to get a little wet. If you can make me squirt, you'll be the first (other than solo) in a long time, and I am YEARNING for that feeling again. It can take specific technique though, so be willing to take direction and guidance.

If you're still reading and not completely put off by this entire post and actually find yourself intrigued..... I'd love to hear from you. Don't be a dick. I'm an actual person, not a pussy with legs. I don't need to see your dick, I don't need you to impress me. Be real and be respectful.

Looking forward to hearing from you!

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