SSRIs, to be precise, are out here making it difficult for me to āachieve orgasm.ā Sometimes I just canāt cum, not because of something youāre doing wrong or not doing. But Iāve been made to feel bad by guys who only measure āsuccessā by the quantity or speed of orgasm.
Would I love to cum a million times for you? Yes! Duh!
But since my meds work for me and depression isnāt great for the olā libido, Iāve adopted an āitās the journey, not the destinationā approach to my pleasure.
Iām not waiting to get off, Iām enjoying every moment and every sensation. I am so so happy if Iām present and embodied and feeling goodā¦ especially making out and receiving oral. (Open to reciprocating if we get something ongoing going.)
So what do you think? Is it crazy to pursue RAOMD if I canāt climax easily? Or can you get gratification from pleasing regardless? Would you like to join me in a longer and less goal-oriented experience? š
If so, I am: 37, a fat babe/a BBW, white, 5'8", blue eyes, blonde hair, busty af, a trimmed bush, and the thickest thighs you've ever had the pleasure of being clamped between. Iām a wordy bitch, obvi, and I love chatting about this stuff.
As for you? I really like smart boys. I like guys on the submissive side of the spectrum. I like a big smile, I've got a thing for glasses, and I prefer no facial hair or a tidy beard/scruff. 28 .
As for the logistics? 1. I insist we meet in public for a vibe check. 2. I take my hygiene and sexual health seriously and expect you do too. I'm recently tested and STI free. 3. If you're in a relationship, you need to lead with that! I'm only interested if it's open/ENM.
Send me a chat or message here on Reddit. I appreciate your thoughtful reply.
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