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Hi RAOMD,

I reached out to J because his post was funny and I just watched the scene he was referencing. We chatted about expectations and exchanged pics. After confirming that we were on the same page — a meet up with no reciprocation, we discussed logistics. We planned to meet at a bar near his place, since he offered to host.

I wouldn't call myself a yapper, but more of an interrogator and this man answered everything with ease. We were probably at that bar for an hour, until I suggested we head out. At his place, we sat on the bed and petted his cuddly cat while continuing the conversation that had now ventured into NSFW topics.

By now, I was comfortable with J and asked him about his move(s). If you've seen the Ryan Gosling/Emma Stone scene in Crazy, Stupid, Love, it was similar to that. He kissed me with surprisingly soft lips and gently ran his hands all over until I got used to his touch. When he finally performed oral sex, all I could do was focus on the sensation. At one point, my brain was fogged up that I actually said “Wait, what are you doing to me?” and he immediately stopped to look up at me and ask if everything was up to par. I laughed and reassured him that I was just stupidly confused at something that could feel sooo good and requested he continue.

Some time in the middle, I got a leg cramp (probably due to exercising new muscles lmao). J immediately stopped, massaged the area, and fetched me a glass of water. Throughout our whole encounter (chat, bar, his place), he constantly checked in saying that we don't have to do anything at all and confirmed that this was all no reciprocation. This man understood enthusiastic consent, practiced clear communication, and effectively delivered throughout the process. 10/10 and would recommend the muffowners of RAOMD to play with this redditor.

My favorite parts of the whole meetup: - After he asked me if it's okay to go down, I told him to describe what he'd do first. Knowing what's about to happen reduces my anxiety so I demanded he do so before anything could begin. He shouted “I will…” then got really close to my ear and whispered in detail what was to come. - At some point, my head was hanging off his bed and I asked him not to drop me because my upper torso was teetering off the edge. I was just about to lift myself using my legs when this man grabbed my shoulders and pulled me closer to the center of the bed, all without stopping what he was currently doing to me.

That's all for today.