I thought you might be interested in how my search went. Sorry this is so long i simply suck at editing. Scroll down for the success.

TLDR; one long weekend, one great muffdive

I posted on RAOMD on the 27th.

I've been lurking on this sub for a while, and have had a couple of good experiences before. It's ovulation week (aka feral levels of horny) and a long weekend, so I decided to make my first post. I was expecting to get maybe a handful of messages. Boy was I wrong. The amount of messages I received was overwhelming. Nice to know there are so many guys out there that love to go down, where have you all been hiding!!

Lots of the people that messaged weren't the right fit for me and I didn't have time to reply to them all so I ignored:

• anyone that hadn't followed my instructions in the post. If you can't do that, it makes me think you won't take direction well or listen to me.
• anyone too young, sorry to all the lovely under 24 year olds that messaged I'm sure you are great!
• anyone creepy/pushy/weird, one guy even offered to pay me???
• anyone that mentioned their dick size... I don't care and it makes me feel like you'll pressure me into more.

Mistakes I made:

• originally I didn't specify that I meant Bristol UK, so I got alot of messages from Americans.
• I didn't put an age range, tbh didn't think I was fussed about this but turns out I am.
• I didn't specify how far I would travel, or if I could host.
• I replied to too many people at once and then couldn't keep up with the responses.
• I also forgot to mention I was hoping for something this weekend.

I found a few messages that stood out to me and chatted to a few people. I arranged to meet up with one guy on Saturday, he was nice and attractive from his pic sadly he had to cancel on the day due to illness. I chatted to another couple of guys but they were kinda far away, and one other guy who offered for me to go to his hotel he wasn't from bristol and this felt a little too risky to me.

I arranged to meet with another guy on Tuesday who was super hot and we had a nice chat (this didn't happen in the end).

THE SUCCESS;

Meanwhile... Saturday night rolled around and i was still feeling horny so I went back through my messages and starting chatting to a guy who looked cute and his message stood out. We had a funny chat and I liked his vibe. Turns out we were both free the next day so agreed to meet for a coffee. We talked boundaries and turn ons. Honestly I was so wet at the idea of meeting him. After we'd agreed a time I was too excited to sleep so got myself off thinking about it. We met the next day, grabbed a coffee, walked around the park. It was relaxed and friendly, we went back to mine and then it was on. The build up was so hot I was absolutely dripping. The muffdiving was amazing I loved it, and not to down play that but I think this guys fingers are magic because no one has ever made me squirt like that before. It just kept going, I lost count and he really just nailed me right in the g spot. I was seeing stars and temporarily lost the ability to talk/walk/function. He just gave me his full attention for nearly two hours, it was so hot! I'm a lil greedy and don't really have a natural stopping point but he managed to tire me out which is actually quite a feat 😅 I had originally said no reciprocation but after all that I wanted to, so I offered and he accepted which was also fun and nearly got me all riled up again. I had actually lost quite alot of liquid at that point tho lol so probably good we stopped before I started to look like dry spongebob. Anyway, great experience! I've left out alot of details but rest assured it was all hot, wet and wild.

My advice for the people looking to receive: before posting really think about what you want like when/where/who/how, be as clear and specific as possible. This goes for the chatting too, this was my first time posting but not my first raomd meetup. I recommend giving your diver some sort of road map to pleasing you. If you post you will likely get alot of responses so you can be discerning in who you choose. Trust your instincts, if you get a bad feeling about someone or you don't feel 100% into it. Don't do it! Always meet in public first, and share your location with someone. As with all hookups/dating expect some disappointments, it can't be helped it's just the nature of meeting people.

Be persistent, you'll find your match and it will all be worth it! Hope you all enjoy my success story and thanks again to the guy I met!