long time married with no sex and god i miss long languid days in bed. perfume that smells of rich incense. hot massage oil. shaved smooth and moisturised. surely we should take time out once in a while and enjoy the simple pleasures?
I'm 5'10. In ok shape (enjoy a run now and again). kinda arty, leftwing, green. I try to dress well, smell good, etc. not exactly a vegetarian but do limit how much meat i eat - this mostly translates to 'once in a blue moon, in a very very good restaurant'. i like a dip in the ocean all year round ..ok, margate tidal pool. really into live music and theatre. play a lot of guitar (you will never be subjected to this).. honestly better at building them than playing them (let me file your frets baby).
I have some free time - honestly i have doubts about whether it's enough, and that has stopped me trying anything like this before.. but then, you're probably in the same boat, right?
I do think of myself as honest, trustworthy and having some integrity, so yes, there are feelings of guilt about even thinking of having an affair.. but somehow it is reduced by imagining that there is someone out there - around my age - equally emotionally mature, stable, not reckless/destructive - in control, looking for something similar. Not sure that makes any sense?
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