So the title says it all and I wanted to share that. It was a bit of a drive, but well worth it. I don't want to get into details about it. She contacted me a few days afterwards via chat.

A few tips for guys who want to maximize their chances of success:

• Be literate. Speak in full and complete sentences (Don't just say "DTF?" or whatever).
• Be nice and respectful. Everyone on here is a normal person, with a normal life, and a normal job. Looking for casual sex doesn't change that.
  • Even if she has a humiliation kink or something, wait until you've both consented before you do that. Exchanging any "sexual energy" before both parties agree is still a breach of consent. Best case, you just embarrass yourself.
• Discuss and disclose sexual health. Disclose STIs/STDs. Results of most recent test. Discuss protection.
• Discuss, explicitly, what you like and want to do so you understand. Discuss, explicitly, what you dislike and what you won't do. 80% of consent is just understanding desires and boundaries.
• Discuss meaning & aftercare. Safe to say that most of the posts on here are for casual encounters, but don't assume. Discuss the expectation of sleeping over and make sure you agree.
• Don't be afraid to say no or walk away. Personally the hardest for me because it's no secret that women probably get 1000:1 ratio of messages and it can seem that women have an "unfair advantage" in casual encounters. So I get the impulse to want to be more agreeable, but sex gone awry can have lifelong consequences so if a vibe doesn't feel right just back away. I hope this post can serve as a reminder that there is no shortage of opportunity to fly your freak flag.

Have fun. Stay safe.