You deserve pleasure, pleasure is not something that needs to be earned. Pleasure is not just a reward, it is its own good.

In life I'm a leftist nerd, into puzzles, MCU, Avatar: the Last airbender, etc. I'm Black, 5'11", 85% athletic build 15% dad bod, sfw pictures upon chatting and a nude included in post history

Here's my vision of how this will ideally go: After some online vetting, we schedule a time today or this weekend to meet somewhere to verify we're real, and that we feel safe around each other. Then we move to a nearby private space (Maybe a dayuse or something). There, I find out if you prefer a firm or gentle massage, and proceed to find a massage out your knots and points of tension.

The massage moves seamlessly into cunnilingus, building ever-so-slowly into a solid orgasm, on-par with what you could give yourself. You're already pretty satisfied, but I seem to think we're just beginning. You know how after you've laughed intensely for an extended period of time your abs and the other laughing muscles hurt? The same thing can happen to your pelvic muscles from sustained orgasms; that’s the state I want to get you to.

Next, I add the ropes. A surprisingly unrestrictive tie that keeps your hands and arms totally free, and comes off quickly like a backpack, but is able to help you keep your legs still, back, and apart at times when the throes of pleasure would have you squirming all over the place.

Once the tie is set I return to the cunnilingus, the build-up is different this time, more intense...maybe too intense. I gently remind you that the greater the release, the greater the tension before it, and you decide to ride the wave and see what's on the other side of the tension.

What's on the other side is an explosive full body experience that is difficult to articulate, one past partner exclaimed "That was like a romance novel orgasm"

Another said, "I can't tell if that was a lot of orgasms all in a row, one big one, or what."

"You fuck like a lesbian" has to be some of the greatest praise I've ever received. I

If all of that sounds desirable, drop a chat with your location, a pic, and your name (call me Peter)

Stay tasty, ladies!