Hello Reddit, Sugar here, I’ve posted before and responded to so many messages but with that, had so many fizzle out & I was pretty much over Reddit but here I am, sexually frustrated and looking again for people who want to make new friends and bond over the common goal of getting my pebble polished. & honestly, I am so over not having friendships where I can be authentically horny with and aren’t honest enough to let me know when they are, it feels like a huge fake mask we put on during heated moments instead of leaning into them when we all know what’s happening.

I think the fact that some of the funnest things to do are taboo to do with friends is absolutely bizarre; my closest friends, are people I already know, trust and feel safe with, we’re typically happy to do favors for each other but even when I’m sure they’d be into it, society says it’s too far from the norm to suggest participating in any sort of mutual masturbation or casual sexual favors without changing the dynamics of the friendship.

I just want to tell my friends when I think they look hot, tease with a grab or put a little more into bending over if I’ve already caught them looking and so here I am looking for people who already know the flavor of the coffee I’m brewing before they order, so hopefully, I can avoid the silly charade that’s expected in adulthood where when I have people coming over I have people over I have to either make sure my shirt isn’t too sheer or I can’t sit a certain way in certain clothes because that shit is getting exhausting to keep up all of the time.

In the past, my most genuine friendships have been the ones where we feel comfortable enough that seeing, teasing or touching each other a little doesn’t feel out of the ordinary. I just think the time that’s wasted making sure changing, showering and masturbating are kept private and making sure everything stays appropriate and the shame, or whatever,holds more people back from hanging out naked feels super unnecessary and is kind of a major buzz kill.

I’m happily single but stoked to potential fwb. I’d want to message someone to get a feel for them before moving off of reddit because I’m super into connection and authenticity (& being DDF & clean) and if that’s not there generally looks wont matter regardless. If your open minded, respectful, interested and interesting let’s message a while and see if we don’t hate eachother :)