I deleted my original post a while ago, so there’s nothing to link to. But basically, just a plus sized girl visiting SF and looking to be a pillow princess for an early bday present. I wanted to be the center of attention for once and didn’t want any pressure to reciprocate.

After wading through the replies, I started chats with a few promising guys (who had actually read the ad, wrote replies of substance, and got my attention). Over the next few days, most of the conversations fell off for one reason or another but one guy and I kept chatting with each other. He was funny, and normal, and I found him attractive and interesting.

He was also visiting the city on work, and could only get free late one evening. He met me in my hotel lobby that night, and I was pleasantly surprised that he was even more attractive than his photo was. He was well dressed and had a great smile and nice eyes.

We went up to my room and sat on the couch chatting for a while. He was very low-key and not at all pushy. He gave me a foot rub to break the ice. It worked, and I asked him if he wanted to see the bedroom. I’m smooth like that. 😂

One thing led to another, and I eventually found myself on my back on the bed with him sliding my pants off of me. He spent plenty of time going down on me: kissing, nibbling, sucking, lapping at me. I usually don’t orgasm from oral sex, but I still really enjoy it if he’s really into it. He really knew how to use his tongue and fingers (ooof the fingers 🤤), and had me very close several times.

Afterwards we cuddled and chatted for a while. He seemed to like being pressed up against me as the big spoon, playing with my breasts and grabbing my ass. I left a wet spot on his jeans.

Eventually, he rolled me over to my stomach and went down on me again, this time from behind. Followed by more cuddling and more enjoying one another’s company. He was a great kisser.

I had brought my vibrator with me, knowing that oral doesn’t usually push me over the edge, and asked if he wanted to watch me get off. I swear his eyes lit up and he had a big grin on his face. He held me and played with my nipples till I came loudly.

He had been so respectful of my boundaries (his pants stayed on and he made no move to get me to touch his dick) and so good at going down on me, I had to force myself to remember this was about me, and that he had specifically said that he didn’t want any reciprocation. I’m a giver, so that was really hard for me, but it was for the best. I deserved to be spoiled a bit.

Reluctantly, I let him leave (although I straddled his waist for a while to keep him around a bit longer). We chatted for a day or two more and then the conversation petered off, which I guess was to be expected. But it was still a super positive, enjoyable, lovely experience. 10/10, great service, highly recommend 😂

The moral of the story is, ladies, don’t be shy; if you want a muff dive, make a post. Be honest about who you are and what you want. Be confident that there’s a guy out there – probably dozens of guys out there – who love a woman with your body type, whatever that body type is. Yes, you’ll have to wade through a lot of low effort replies and a lot of unsolicited dick pics. However, there are gems out there: men who will respect your boundaries, respect you, and want nothing in return for making you a pillow princess.