He was in town visiting and I responded to his ad, J and I started messaging back and forth, I like how he sounded intelligent, seemed like he could carry on a conversation, and could give me the mental stimulation I needed to really enjoy myself. So yes while I was looking for a hookup I need more than "wanna fuck?" Type conversation. And boy did I get it.

He was coming into town and we spent the days prior talking about our likes and dislikes, what we were hoping we would get out of our interaction. It kept the excitement going and kept me turned on. I'm the type of person who the more orgasms I have, the more sexed up I become. So I spent the days prior highly aroused and making myself come multiple times a day. J was super respectful prior, ensuring I felt comfortable and safe. We wound up meeting at a bar/restaurant near my house and he said he wanted to meet out front because it can be a little awkward at times. I ubered because I'd already had a drink and parking at my condo can be funky, so I purposely parked in visitor parking so my space would be open...because I had a feeling I knew how this would go based on our initial convos. He gave me a hug and quick kiss out front and we walked inside, he held my hand and put me at ease. We had good conversation, he was flirtatiously touching me the whole time, touching my arm, back, hair and thighs. Nothing inappropriate but enough to get me turned on. By the time he leaned in and told me he knew what he wanted to do, and at this point what happened was up to me, I knew he was coming back to my place. I was still a little nervous and we had one more drink I believe. He kissed me briefly in the car and we had some flirty conversation while we drove back to my place (he was staying outside of the city). We smoked a little herb, which always heightens the feelings for me.

When we got back to my place we opened a seltzer each and started talking on the couch. This didn't last long and At some point I wound up sitting on his lap with my breasts in his face while I was grinding on him. We knew it was time to move to my room. I was so wet and he had been teasing me so much. Things are a little fuzzy from this point on. I can tell you I had multiple orgasms, some were solo, some were the rolling kind. When his fingers first entered my pussy and started teasing around my inner and outer lips I knew I had made the right decision in doing this. It's so rare to find a man who truly loves to discover how your pussy feels, what makes it really tick, etc. but it felt like he was really trying to discover my pussy and what works. When his mouth and tongue touched me for the first time it was amazing. I think he enjoyed how wet he made me and it was all over his face because he was so voracious at eating me. At times he had his fingers inside me caressing my gspot and I remember doing a small squirt. I wanted to squirt so much for him.

During our flirty chatting he had asked if I was into getting my ass eaten, or fingers in there. I had said I wasn't opposed but it had to be something that happened organically and if I started to get very raw/animalistic he would know it may be okay to try. I had told him it wasn't something that had previously brought me a ton of pleasure but I wasn't opposed to trying some things with it. He got me to a very raw point and I guess he figured it was time to go for it. With previous partners when I had no warning my typical reaction was "whoa whoa whoa what are you doing??" THIS...was more like "oh my god this feels amazing what the fuck is happening to me??" It's like he knew exactly how far to go and what nerve endings to hit. He was hitting multiple spots on my body at one time and it was amazing. I think this is maybe when I squirted? Again things are blurry.

At one point I started to go down on him and after a few sucks and licks he told me I needed to stop or he would come immediately. I did and I believe he went down on me again. Then I wound up going down on him again. He was so vocal with the pleasure he received and when he came in my mouth it was so much....it kept coming and I remember putting some of it on my tits and he licked it off. And he kissed and licked my face after he came in my mouth, as well as after going down on me. I think we both loved tasting our own and each others fluids off each other. I loved feeling my wetness on his beard.

He talked about needing to go and told me he would like to do this again before he left. We both agreed on Thursday night, and he said we needed to because I hadn't ridden his face. (Something i had told him when we messaged I wasn't always comfortable with) I made the joke I'd do it now, thinking he was exhausted. He told me to go for it. I let him know I'd need him to lick me to where I was super turned on (not that I basically wasn't always wet anytime I was near him) but I'd have to get really aroused to where I'd be do comfortable. It didn't take long and I was sitting on his face, covering his entire face with my wetness and juices. I was so sexed up and turned on and I had no inhibitions grinding my pussy all over him. When I came it just wouldn't stop and my orgasms just kept rolling. I just remember finally climbing off and him holding me for a good five minutes while I gasped and shook and twitched. He was excellent at realizing I would need that. He also lightly stroked my pussy, not in a sexual way (well as non sexual as it could be) but in a relaxing way that just made it feel so good, and like he knew it needed a light touch to calm down.

This is so long I'm going to break this into two comments. Just typing this out is such a turn on and honestly I haven't even gotten to our second night together which was even more arousing to me.