I’m a tall, chubby, fun-loving, friendly woman who had success receiving a very (very!) satisfactory muff dive in mid-September thanks to this subreddit.

I’m not really great with sexy details, and prefer to keep some things private. But I do want to let people know that good things absolutely can and do happen on RAOMD. I’m really grateful for the opportunity to explore my sexuality and my own pleasure using this subreddit.

I’ve now posted four(ish) times, had two “full successes,” one meet up for a drink that didn’t result in a dive, and one attempt that resulted in no meet up at all. I want to clarify that the drink that didn’t result in a dive was NOT because of the man. Aunt Flo funked up that one. Whoops. Cool guy though.

When I posted back in September hoping to get eaten out on a very brief trip to Vegas, I wasn’t super optimistic. I had such a limited time frame and I know that I’m the type of person that likes to build a little anticipation before meeting someone.

The afternoon of my one-night stay in Vegas, I didn’t think I was going to meet up with anyone. I’d had an unexpectedly chaotic workday, my flight was delayed, and I hadn’t really talked much to anyone.

That’s when I saw a message from A. We exchanged photos and started chatting. After a few messages, he asked about my comfort with meeting up (reasonable, since time was ticking away). I just wasn’t comfortable yet. He offered that he was happy to keep talking if I wanted to, even though I wasn’t sure a meet up was going to happen.

I mention this because I think a lot of men will claim that women are flakey, don’t really ever want to meet in person, etc. But really, I wasn’t ready to meet because I didn’t have enough data points yet. I’m not a human behavior expert, I don’t always know exactly what question I’m looking for the answer to, or how I’m going to select a “safe” guy. I’m just trusting my gut on whether I have enough info to move forward.

So, we kept chatting for a bit. Sharing more about ourselves. I respect other people’s privacy, but I have found some men to be way too cagey about their lives. This guy provided evidence in our conversation that he was actually in Vegas for the reason he said he was and while he could have been lying about a bunch of stuff and I’d never know, I don’t think he was.

We met up at a bar I’d been wanting to check out. We ended up actually making a visit to a second bar I’d mentioned to him in our chats as well.

Something I’ve come to learn in my RAOMD adventures (and something very important to know about myself) is that I really do need that “mental warm-up” so to speak. Although I’m only looking for one-night, I need to feel like we click a little, that I’m being heard, and that I know a little about the man. “A” ultimately made me cum faster than any other man I’d been with in recent memory once he went down on me BUT I don’t think that would have happened without the extended foreplay ouuf just relaxing together and talking. By the time he touched that pussy, it was wet and ready to go.

It took maybe three minutes from the time we entered my room until he had my dress off. Like I said, I was ready to go at that point. He was a great listener and followed my instructions when I asked him to do certain things with his hands and mouth. I love learning what I like and what feels good for me. I really appreciate a man who truly wants to help with that.

After I came, I asked him if he would jerk off for me. I have a thing for watching hot guys play with themselves and “A” was happy to show off for me. If I’m being honest, I do think I enjoy the power dynamic of having of a man telling me how much he wants to please me, having him make me cum, and then knowing that the only relief he’s getting is jerking himself off.

For the record, “A” did ask me if I wanted to sit on his face while he stroked himself. Don’t want to make it sound like he wasn’t ready to give me more than one orgasm. My pussy was ultimately too sensitive to be snacked on in that moment, so enjoyed the show while laying next to him.

Thanks for yet another good meet up, RAOMD!