SSRIs, to be precise, are out here making it difficult for me to “achieve orgasm.” Sometimes I just can’t cum, not because of something you’re doing wrong or not doing. But I’ve been made to feel bad by guys who only measure “success” by the quantity or speed of orgasm.

Would I love to cum a million times for you? Yes! Duh!

But since my meds work for me and depression isn’t great for the ol’ libido, I’ve adopted an “it’s the journey, not the destination” approach to my pleasure. I’m not waiting to get off, I’m enjoying every moment and every sensation. I am so so happy if I’m present and embodied and feeling good… especially receiving unreciprocated oral, which is my all-time favorite activity.

So what do you think? Is it crazy to pursue RAOMD if I can’t climax easily? Or can you get gratification from pleasing regardless? Would you like to join me in a longer and less goal-oriented experience? 😏

If so, I am: 36, a fat babe/a BBW, white, 5'8", with big blue eyes, short blonde hair, an ample bosom, a trimmed bush, and the thickest thighs you've ever had the pleasure of being clamped between. I’m a wordy bitch, obvi, and I love chatting about this stuff. I’m also a feast for the sensualists: soft, warm, juicy, smelling good, tasting good, vocal and expressive, extremely sensitive, incessantly horny, and a great kisser.

As for you? I really like smart boys. I like boys on the submissive side of the spectrum, or a vanilla dynamic is fine. I like a big smile, I've got a thing for glasses, and I prefer no facial hair or a tidy beard/scruff. 28 .

As for the logistics? 1. I insist we meet in public for a vibe check. 2. I'd love to develop something ongoing, but a one time thing is great too, as long as you're clear that's what you're offering. 3. I'm recently tested and STI free.

Send me a chat or message here on Reddit. I appreciate your thoughtful reply.