Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and can be created and proven to someone. A huge fantasy of mine is totally worshipping someone, because I deeply enjoy that my actions can only be interpreted through the lense that I can only do this because I find you beautiful.

I'm 6'4", very physically strong, but have a bit of a dad bod, but overall I consider myself very attractive. I'm 37, white and male. I'm well educated (PhD) and employed as a Scientist in a University. I'm honest and I'd appreciate the same. I'm in town for a conference, so unfortunately this can't be an ongoing thing, as I don't live here. I can't host, so part of this is compensation and thanks for letting me give you head and hosting.

For a connection here, I'd strongly prefer to meet someone outside my ethnicity. I'm happy to discuss why, but it's beyond the scope of this post. Other than that, I don't have any special physical desires, other than you really enjoy getting head.

It would be great to chat, exchange pictures and get to know each other, discuss limits and preferences, first. Before any meetup happens, to ensure you feel safe, I will verify my identity with you, and because of my career success it is easy to authenticate online. We can talk on the phone/video chat, too.

Overall I want the situation to feel as safe, and be as low maintenance, and enjoyable as possible. I don't care about makeup, what clothing you're wearing, if your place is messy, if you haven't showered or shaved (I prefer unshaven anyway) - that's kind of the point, despite what you would consider your most "presentable" form, I'm going to love worshipping you, because that's how fucking beautiful and amazing you are.

My ideal situation would be to buy and bring you whatever is your favorite food. After arriving at your place and while you eat, I can give you a backrub, rub your feet, or if you prefer I can simp with compliments or be ignored, even tidy up for you.

After that, just go to a place where you can sit or lay comfortably a chair, edge of the bed, turn the TV on, pull a book out, or surf your phone while I first massage you, then shower you in kisses, and finally give you head for as long as you'd like. If you enjoy connection and expressing pleasure that's fine, but no need to put a show on, that's my job. Hell, you can even surf your dating apps and I can give you pointers on your profile or matches from a male perspective. You should feel like a queen and a god. I want this. Giving pleasure makes me feel good, so in all this, I'm the one that says "thanks", and you say "you're welcome". Let me tell you how much I love it, and how amazing you are, and you don't worry about a thing.

I know I'm talented with my mouth and hands, but I'm open to toys enhancing things, and there's no pressure on you for anything, particularly reciprocation, which I explicitly do not want. If you're cool with it though, I'd like to jerk off while I'm serving you, and if you're also ok with it, I can finish myself while licking or kissing without changing from you sitting/laying comfortably (bonus points if I can finish while kissing your ass).

After, I can clean you up, I'm into cuddling if you're interested, and I leave.

For the delivery stuff, it should go without saying that I'll pay, I bring this up because while I'm not into findom or anything like that, I'm also OK "tipping". The icing on the cake, memory wise is you being compensated for getting worshipped. This is purely for pleasure purposes, if you catch my drift. I'm not looking for "that".

As written, this is a huge fantasy and desire of mine, but genuinely and truly love giving head, so if you have some things in mind outside of what's here, feel free to chat me up.

I'm not usually free during the day, and most free after 10pm, so hello night owls. I'm fine giving head for 5 minutes or 5 hours. I'm very confident leading the way, but I'm also very open to boundaries and feedback.

If this sounds fun, send me a message or chat me (message being better, chat is wonky on mobile), and look forward to hearing from you!