I thought the key to finding someone was to message them as soon as they posted. I spent months wasting my time, competing against hundreds of guys messaging the same girls. Then I read some of the helpful FAQ hints and realized posting was the best way to find someone.

I tried to come up with a creative, expressive post that reflected who I am. It was genuine and honest. I waited a few days and then finally had my first response.

We chatted. She was gorgeous. She was funny. We had so many things in common. She was so easy to talk to.

So we talked. And talked. She wanted to take it slow. I was fine with that.

Out first meeting was a casual meet up at target. We met, talked awhile and walked around the store and ended with a hug. We met up again that night for more conversation and hugs.

We had a many more encounters that were very casual like eating out and getting coffee. We eventually spent our meet ups kissing and making out. It wasn’t muff diving, but for me it filled in that hole I was missing. We did this for a few months. It was a tease, but I was really into this woman.

Eventually our texts and conversations got spicier. We talked about what we would do to each other. I researched best techniques for female oral pleasure.

We set a date and time to meet for our first NSFW experience.

The meet up was casual. We were both nervous. We started as always with some light kissing and making out. I could smell how clean she was and it was a huge turn on.

As our making out got hotter and hotter we quickly moved to undressing and then making out with just underwear on. Months of delay helped give us the patience to not go crazy.

We eventually got naked. She laid on the edge of the bed and I positioned myself between her legs. Months of studying the art of cunnilingus had not prepared me for the sweet taste and aromas that filled my senses.

We took breaks as we did this. Being on my knees and using my tongue and mouth was difficult.

But slowly, she began to build. I could feel in either each lap of my tongue on her folds. I could hear it in hear breathing. She was close.

The squeeze of her thighs around my head and the hands in my hair was the sign I was waiting for. I did it.

Here are some things I learned:

• You’ll have better luck creating a post instead of responding to a post
• Patience is a virtue
• Having a profile that reflects you (with posts and comments) is much better than a throwaway that is blank
• If you post daily or in multiple subs constantly, you come off desperate
• Being able to host in a clean, safe environment increases your chances for success
• If you don’t have success with posting, try reading the FAQ for tips on making a great post