Hey there :)

To start by ripping off the bandaid... I'm in a long term relationship, we live together, we moved here together, and it's very secure. I'm not looking to change anything at home nor anything for you should you be in a similar position! Because of this, I ask for discretion and understanding that I do need to make sure things are not only safe for you, but for me and my s/o as well. Please be able to provide clean and recent sti test results as I will get testing done before anything happens in person. I'm ddf and would like for you to be as well!

I'm very fit and athletic, but slim guy who takes a lot of pride in being healthy and hygienic. I'd call myself "twink-ish" if I had to pick one word to physically describe myself. Sexually, I'm very much dominant-leaning switch. I will want to move chats to telegram where I will gladly verify my identity and I ask that you will too. I'm a child of the internet, so don't take my skepticism personally :)

I'm ultimately here because, while I love my partner with all of my heart, I am not able to have my needs met by her at this time. We have had a dead bedroom situation for a couple years now... The occasional fooling around, but it's been very quiet on the intimate side. Even before our bedroom fully went dark, my partner never fully felt comfortable when I was solely giving her pleasure. I have a very strong oral fixation and desire to worship my partners so I have had this need for a long time... your pleasure is my pleasure.

I'm hoping to find someone willing to connect and chat a bit before we plan anything irl. I hope to find someone who loves to feel worshpped and is comfortable allowing me to take my time exploring you with my lips, my mouth, and my tongue. If you feel comfortable, I'd love to explore your entire body with my oral skills, aannnnd this is kinda weird but do have a bit of a kink for armpits... lol. It's oddly intimate for me, so I'm gonna throw that on the table as well!

If you read all that, I'm sorry but not sorry because there might be something there that ticks a box for you. If I indeed resonate with you, feel free to say hello and share a bit about yourself, no need to write a whole-ass essay, but I'd appreciate getting to know you a little and what brings you to this sub. Hope to hear from you :)

P.S. This is my nsfw alt account which I use to explore my sexuality. So I will give you a heads up if you choose to take a look at my posting history. I post purely for the fun of the game and yes, for a bit of validation. If you enjoy what you see, don't be shy in saying so. I love getting compliments as much as giving them!