This is less of a hot/steamy/sexy story and more of an assurance for the RAOMD community that there are real, safe, nice people willing to meet up out there.

Despite the challenges other women mention with RAOMD (offensive messages, dick pics, conversations that go nowhere, ghosting... ). I found a real human man I felt comfortable meeting up with and he ate my pussy until I came. He clearly understood the assignment.

I'd first attempted to post on RAOMD almost six months back. For various reasons, that post didn't lead to a meeting. To be totally honest, I felt a little defeated after that attempt. I'm a friendly, outgoing, social person and I don't think I'm hideous-looking. So why couldn't I make my RAOMD dreams come true?

A few weeks ago, I decided to try again. Unfortunately, I've now deleted the post I created looking for a muff diver because once I found a guy I thought might be a fit, I no longer wanted to receive low-effort potential dick pic messages from other men. Oh well. But my post basically said that I was a tall chubby white woman who wanted to play the role of pillow princess and cum all over some guy's face.

For other men who want to know why I responded to and ultimately met up with this man:

1) He included a photo and basic stats in his first message and when I asked for another photo, he was quick to provide it.

2) He was non-threatening throughout our conversation. This may appear to be an incredibly low bar to clear, but not everyone clears it.

3) Great communication throughout. From our pre-dive conversations on Reddit about our turn-ons and limits to the updates we sent each other via text regarding logistics of meeting up on the day of our encounter.

4) And finally, I found him attractive and he was clearly offering the experience I was looking for. It's not just physical attraction though. I was looking for someone I clicked with emotionally and could have a conversation with.

When it came to actually meeting up, we grabbed a drink in public and had a really normal conversation about our lives, moved to some more intense flirting/touching before moving up to my hotel room, he then ate my pussy until I orgasmed. We followed that with some more touching and him jerking himself off in front of me since I like to watch guys play with themselves. :)

While we had discussed the possibility of maybe doing more in our message exchange during the week leading up to our meet-up, when it came to the in-person action, he let me lead the way on what I wanted next and didn't pressure me to do more than I wanted at any point in time.

I'm not including many steamy details because I tend to be private about those types of things and also don't want to unintentionally give away too many identifying details about this man. But, I think it's really important for the RAOMD community to know that it is possible to have success on this subreddit! Good luck out there and have fun. :)