Hello, RAoMD

I'm a glutton for punishment, so here I go again :)

I am a 39-year-old, SINGLE, professional, pretty good-looking, fun, fit, and nerdy guy. I have a lot going on with work right now, plus I’m pursuing a degree and taking care of aging parents. I’ve been single since before covid hit, and honestly, I have some physical passions and desires that I would love to get out of my system. My life prevents traditional dating (*yes, even Tinder has been a letdown) and I’m way too long out of the game to have any idea how to navigate “hook-up” culture these days, without running the risk of hurting someone emotionally (which is not what I want to do).

Long story short (well, sort of)… I would love to meet a fun and happy person that desires a man’s attention. If you would allow me to be crude, what I miss most about being with a woman is feeling her climax while I’m going down on her, so that is what I would like to offer/request. Reciprocity would always be appreciated but will never be necessary or expected. I would insist that you set all the rules and boundaries, and I will respect them and follow them. I’m a hair over 6 foot, 190 lbs, 100% clean and clean-shaven, and have a nerdy look, but have been told I’m good-looking by women (other than my mother).

My job is amazing, and I have a lot of flexibility with my schedule, but I do take care of my folks in the mornings and in the evenings (when the in-home nurses aren’t around), as well as take online classes on the weekends for my degree (at least for a few more weeks). That being said, I would love to find someone who would love a visit mid-morning to early evening, as often (or as infrequently) as you would like, for a relaxed and passionate hour of my attention.

About you: I would love to meet someone who is D/D free and absolutely loves receiving oral. Since it is what I miss most, ideally you would be able to climax from this (there is something so masculine feeling about being able to do that to someone). Your desire to return the favor is completely optional, and again, you make all the rules. Confidence is another huge turn-on! I would love a woman who knows she is sexy, knows exactly what she wants from me, is willing to ask (or even demand it), and would be willing to relax and receive my attention as if she knew she deserved it!

My job is in Providence, and I live 30 minutes away in Mass. Ideally, you would be in (or around) Providence or at least within a 45 min drive. Your looks, age, marital/dating status, grooming preferences, and body type is WAY less important than your craving for attention and possibly also having a sense of humor (it would be fun to be able to laugh a little about this weird arrangement... don't you think?).

Reach out if you would like to know more. Happy to answer any questions you may have. Hope to hear from you .*You can check my comment history for a recent pic of me (it's actually me). *I have also been accused of being a 'bot' a few times. I click all the "I'm not a robot" CAPTCHAs... what more do I need to do to prove I'm not?!? Even though that is exactly what a bot would say, remember, you can always block me if I turn out to be a creep ;)