Hi RAOMD,

I’ve been in Amsterdam for about a month on a long vacation with about a week left. I’ve had an amazing trip but really just want one more thing to celebrate my trip (and my birthday week)…

It should go without saying since this is RAOMD but I’m looking to meet somebody to go down on, feast on, try to make you cum as many times as you want, make my jaw cramp, lay back and relax and let me please you, get on top and nearly suffocate me as you grind on my face, drench me…

Also, this should all go without saying but not looking for any reciprocation or for this as an opening to more. I’m kind, a good listener, respect boundaries and love to please.

What’s in it for me? Pleasing a partner turns me on. Exploring and learning a new person and their body is exciting. I love listening to a partner moan and pant, feel them squirm as excitement builds, and I especially love the rush and release of energy during orgasm.

All bodies and situations are different and I won’t claim I will make you cum until you tap out or feel like your legs won’t work but I’d like to try and I have a pretty good track record with long and short-term partners. I listen and ask questions, pay attention to your body and want to feel a rush and maybe even a gush…

I just turned 41, I’m queer though mostly experienced with woman, I’m 5’11”, 180 lbs, have a physical job that keeps me in pretty decent shape. I’m most often complimented on my hands, arms, and eyes. My profile shows a more exhibitionist side of myself and some kink I’m into but if you would like a SFW pic with face I’m happy to share if you message me.

More of the “dirty” details which are all up to you: I’m happy to keep clothes on if you’re more comfortable or be nude or in briefs while I please you. A dream scenario would be nude or in underwear and allowed to touch myself occasionally while pleasing you but either not being allowed to cum or a rule like “I may only cum if I make you cum __ times.” The power play, my orgasm control, and even denial is a turn on if you’re interested but is not at all required.

Lastly, one of my biggest turn ons when eating pussy is getting really drenched. Obviously no guarantees but if penetration with fingers while I lick and suck you is okay I’d love to try to make you squirt, cum hard on my face, and feel you dripping down my hands and face. I’ve found, generally with longer-term partners, the permission and knowing you can fully let go is sometimes one of the biggest barriers to a great orgasm and I truly enjoy when a partner lets go.

If you’re nervous, well so am I, but if you’re curious please send a message or chat. Feel free to ask questions and I’d like to know what you’re looking for and a little about yourself. I can host or travel but either way would probably prefer to meet in public first for a drink or something and see if there is a spark. Look forward to hearing from you.