How would you like to meet for a drink and flirt, letting our laughs turn to light touches. Kisses on the couch unraveling into whatever feels natural and nice. Leaving the bed a mess, couch cushions on the floor, and sex toys strewn across the apartment. If you’d like to get an understanding of what I’m like, check my profile for stories.

I leave Melbourne on Sunday morning and plan to chill for the remaining time, though I would love to have some fun with a confident, communicative woman or femme before I leave. I’m a proud ethical slut and quite experienced with connected and casual fun.

I'm drawn to kind, silly, and thoughtful people (leftie feminists a huge plus). The most pleasurable evenings I’ve had are with those who have an understanding of what they like, and can clearly communicate boundaries and desires; hearing what people are into is a huge turn on for me. I have a thing for short, petite women, but this is simply a preference, I’ve been attracted to, and played with a wide variety of people.

I'm tall (6’2”) and white, with a short beard, medium length curly hair, and calming hazel eyes. I’m communicative, get off on pleasing others, and am experienced in Kink. I’ve been told I’m quite good with my mouth and partners tend to fixate on my hands. I identify as cis and default to straight but have a queer approach to sex, focusing more on pleasure than orgasms (though the latter are certainly fun). I’ve had a vasectomy and always use protection. I’m vaccinated for both COVID and HPV, and have STI tests regularly.

Interests outside the bedroom include music, art, museums, cycling, cooking, eating, listening, and wandering. I'm in a supportive open relationship and see a wonderful therapist so I won't be looking to you to process with or emotionally dump on. If this sounds interesting to you let’s chat, swap clothed photos (nudes don’t do much for me before I know you), meet for a drink (doesn’t have to be alcohol), and have some fun.