This subreddit is currently restricted in protest of Reddit's proposed API changes.
Moderators
Subreddit Rules
Don't reveal personal information.
This includes but is not limited to: real name, Reddit usernames, usernames for chat or messaging services (Facebook, Kik, Snapchat, etc), phone numbers, email addresses, physical addresses, etc.
Your posts or comments should not include any personally identifying information. This is for your own safety, as well as the safety of others.
Respect others, their choices, and their situations
You might not like everything on here. That's okay. If you believe that someone is doing something illegal or harmful, please report the post. If it's just not your kink, please move along.
Comments that point out "red flags" in a particular user's behavior or posting history are allowed, so long as they are not blatant attacks on the OP.
Verification Rule
Go here for more details.
Images or videos included in posts must be verified. Alternatively, you may request a verified flair through modmail.
Suspicious posts will necessitate verification via the moderation team. If we have reasonable cause to suspect a poster's identity, we will remove their post and require photo verification before they will be allowed to continue posting on RAOBJ.
Correctly format your post. Use appropriate gender and what you seek.
Age [gender] #[location] - title
Example: 25 [F4M] #Atlanta - looking for thick cock to suck
Valid genders are:
F - female
M - male
T - trans
NB - non-binary
A - any (use to express lack of preference)
Couples must tag their posts accordingly if both/all partners are to be involved or present during the meet-up, or if one partner is posting for the other/s
Update, Success, and Meta posts should be correctly tagged in square brackets.
Example: [Meta] I think we should review the rules
Tag your post with ONE suitable location
Tag your post with one suitable location. It must be marked with a hashtag (#). See Rule 4 on how to properly format your location.
Please be as specific as possible (e.g. #LosAngeles instead of #SoCal.) We will be allowing larger locations for people that live in areas with low population density or popularity (e g., South Dakota or Latvia).
You may also use a large event as your location tag (e.g., #GenCon or #DragonCon).
Users are limited to one post per week, and must use an account that is at least a week old
The post limit is waived in case of [meta], [update], or [success] posts. PM a moderator if you plan to post an update in the same week, otherwise the filter will catch it.
If your post is removed due to errors, please submit a corrected version within 3 hours or your deleted post will count as your post for the week.
No offers of trade, selling, etc.
All users who have a history of using reddit for sex work (e.g. to promote their OnlyFans) to will be auto-banned.
For sex workers who legitimately want to make use of the subreddit, please message the moderators to request a possible exception before making a post. We require those given exceptions to verify.
If you are not granted an exception or do not wish to verify, we must ask that you create an alternate account unconnected to the one you use for selling to use the subreddit.
No low effort / pointless comments or posts.
This isn't Tinder. "Hmu" or "pm'd u" are both examples of terribly low effort comments. It is up to moderator discretion to determine what is low effort; it can be a lot of characters and still be a waste of time.
Comments with less than 10 characters and posts with less than 50 characters in the body (not the title!) will be automatically removed.
Post bodies must include basic information about your physical appearance (e.g. height and weight)
This does not need to include numbers.
Examples:
• BBW, on the shorter side
• 5'9 with a dad bod
• Average height, 160lbs
• 6'1 and 180lbs
Exceptions will be made for gloryhole posts and people explicitly seeking anonymous encounters. Mention this in your post, not the title.
We also emphasize that all body types are welcome here, and any bigoted, rude, or hateful comments will not be tolerated.
A friendly reminder that it is also always better to be honest about yourself.
We follow the spirit of the law around here.
Just because something is not explicitly against the rules does not mean that it's okay. Moderators will use their best judgement and remove things that violate the spirit of our subreddit or Reddit TOS.
Please report anything that you don't think fits in around here, even if it is not explicitly against the rules.
Link to the Rules Post
Due to character restrictions, it may be difficult to update some of the rules on the sidebar.
Here is our rules and policies page, including relevant links.
as well as the original rules update post
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