I apologise in advance for the length of this post but I figured it would be best if I am as upfront as possible about what I am looking for.

I have never had any sexual contact with a man before and yet it has been a relatively consistent fantasy of mine for a long while. Despite these fantasies, I would not go so far as to say that I'm attracted to men. Rather, I would say that I'm attracted to the idea of serving cock because it fits into my typically submissive sexual mindset. I've struggled for a while to come to terms with what this makes me. On paper, I suppose I would be bisexual but I don't have a desire for romance with men. I would probably classify myself as a straight guy with bicurious, kink-based fantasies, if that makes any sense at all.

So, I am looking for a guy who is willing to play a dominant role in introducing me to sexual activity with men. I am NOT looking for someone who is an asshole so please leave your hyper-aggressive opening message at the door. Instead, I am looking for an understanding mate who just so happens to slide into a more dominant role when it comes time for naughty fun. Crucially, I am not interested in anonymous encounters. I want to get to know you a bit beyond just sex so that we can feel more comfortable expressing our desires to one another.

I am roughly 5’8, 165 lbs, with a clean cut nerdy appearance. I can host in southeast London but I am also open to traveling to yours. I’m a sex-positive guy who strives to create a comfortable experience for my partners. In an ideal world, you would also be a clean cut guy who is close to my age or a bit older. Previous experience with guys is a huge plus for me.

Does this oddly specific post appeal to you? If so, please drop me something in my inbox or chat requests. Let's see where this takes us.