I'm a dom who's not really been too active as of late, combination of a dry spell, marriage to my job and a lack of motivation thanks to having to deal with a lot of time wasters. Gonna be upfront and say if you aren't gonna read this all the way through, then please stop reading from now and save us both time. And while I don't have anything against curious guys, please don't message if you're not sure you want to do this or something. Nothing personal but the last 3 guys to fit that bill would string me along for weeks, let me down at the last minute then repeat the next time we'd arrange something.

5ft 10, slim-average build, mixed race (tan skin) and short black hair. I also wear glasses as is typical thanks to CRT TVs being the eye destroying menace they once were.

Right, sorry for the preamble onto the main thing. I'm a geeky guy who's returned to the good ol city of London after being away for some 6 odd years. Can't host as I'm living with family but I can travel and am open to splitting a hotel though I can't commit to this until I start work again in September. If you host that would be ideal. No cars or outdoor fun for me thanks. So what I'm looking for is a guy (cis and trans both welcome) who's also a geek for an fwb arrangement. Someone to weeb out with, play some switch with maybe (Smash and co-op MonHun would be cool) and I've always wanted someone to go for walks with while playing Pokemon Go or something. So here's where things will get a bit difficult, I'm mostly attracted to guys who're on the cuter side of the aesthetic spectrum. Not necessarily femboys or something but softer features and slim/average physiques are definitely more my thing than hairy, bulky and beary. I do think smooth chubby bodies are attractive though as I love some thiccness. Guess my ideal guy would be a typical scrawny, protectable yet man-handleable nerd? 😅 Something I'd also love would be a sub with a diverse ethnic background. Not to say I dislike white subs by any means...but it's all I've really had. I like pork chops but sometimes you need some steak, lamb, chicken or fish to mix it up yknow? Yeah yeah I know food analogy But it demonstrates the point. I don't even want to discourage white subs from applying necessarily, just encourage others to get at me. In particular I've yet to meet a Black, Latino or Eastern Asian sub for this sort of thing. Oh and perhaps it goes without saying given how often it intersects with geeky guys but...a kinky sub is definitely greatly appreciated!! I'm open to a lot and have quite a lot of stuff I'd love to try exploring again/for the first time. Anyway if you're interested then you can get my attention by opening with your ASL, whether or not you can host and your favourite anime, game or nerdy thing. Thank you for reading and happy hunting!