Hello ROABJ fam! I apologize in advance, but I feel this needs to be seen and heard.

This place has the word ‘random’ in its name. What does random mean? Not scheduled. Not when you want. Not on your timeframe. I made a post a while ago looking to do a RAOBJ and found a few lucky people that I met with and made a success post. My original ‘seeking’ post has been deleted and we have kept up the success post. However, many people chat/message saying things along the lines of ‘I’m available now’ or ‘let’s set something up’. No! It’s random! It’s when I want it! And I want it less when I’m being messaged by guys asking for it to happen. This isn’t r/Imgoingtogiveyouabjjustbecauseyoumessagedme. I have my select people, and if I want to open it to other people, I will make another ‘seeking’ post. Please don’t pressure or feel that you ‘need to make it known’ that you want to get a blowjob. You’re already here and probably made a seeking post yourself, so I already know it’s what you want and what you are looking for.

I can’t speak for everyone, but I know it really does make me want to do it less when I feel pressured to do it. Sorry for my rant, but it’s something that I needed to get off my chest.