Hey guys - so I finally had some success with RAOBJ a while back but the guy lived too far away for it to really become something regular, so I'm back, hoping I can find the right situation. So here goes. Sorry in advance for the long read, but I'm committed to finding the right guy/arrangement and hopefully this amount of detail keeps either of us from wasting our time if it isn't a match.

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So, ideally, I'm looking for a 100%, genuinely-not-into-guys-AT-ALL, capital S- Straight man. I am absolutely open to gay, bi, curious or anywhere along the spectrum, it just doesn't seem to usually be a match for one reason or another, but as long as you meet what I'm looking for below, feel free to message me.

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So - first, a bit of an explanation as to why I'm posting an ad for straight men. Unlike a lot of gay men I've seen looking for straight men, for me, it isn't about a "conquest". I'm not trying to "get someone that's hard to get" and I'm not trying to convert anyone. Honestly, there are several reasons.

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First, I'm looking for this for the sake of convenience - both for you and for me. Sexually, I am 100% into pleasing a guy rather than being pleased. When hooking up with gay/bi men, often they're just as into sucking which results in this whole awkward thing where I'm either stressed because they're trying to touch me too or I'm stressed about whether or not they're attracted to me. With a straight man, I already know he's not into me and I know he wants nothing to do with touching or pleasing me, he just wants a mouth to get off in. I like that. It's convenient for me. It's also convenient for him because, as all straight men will attest, finding a woman willing to just give them blowjobs is difficult. Don't get me wrong, there are definitely women that are into it, and plenty of them on here, but for ever 1 woman posting for it, there are 20x more men. It's convenient for him because he doesn't have to go through all of that - I'm a sure thing and don't mind being just a backup for when he strikes out looking for women.

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Secondly, there's this certain type of attitude that I notice with some straight men that really gets me going. Whenever I do see a woman posting on here, there are always tons of replies from men who are super eager to be sucked. That eagerness is a turn on for me. There's also this tendency for straight men I've seen to be really into rough face fucking or blow-banging, but often find it hard to meet women into things like that. There are all these men who really want to be selfish and rough sexually but then when they hookup with most women, they have to hold back. I'm most turned on when a guy is completely selfish sexually and only concerned about his pleasure, so this very much fits with those types of guys. Whenever I see all of these guys eagerly responding to a woman posting wanting to be face fucked or looking for multiple men for a gang bang, it's always frustrating because... I'm *exactly* the type of person they're looking for sexually, I just happen to be a man. I once had a group of female friends get really upset with a male friend because they heard he'd referred to women he'd slept with as slam pigs - they were disgusted, but I was turned on. I *want* to be someone's "slam pig". I want to be your human fleshlight. I've even recently bought one of these fleshlight gags to further drive home the point that my mouth is nothing more than a sex toy, but have yet to use it. [Exempt] (https://images-na.ssl-images-amazon.com/images/I/51uLsEQuPdL._SY679_.jpg)

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So - that's the why... so, what am I looking for? Well, at it's most basic, I'm very orally submissive. I love to suck, get face fucked. I have a huge cum fetish and love to swallow loads. Nothing turns me on more than the feeling of a guy's cock in my mouth as it starts to pulsate and suddenly my mouth is filling with cum. I also love to lick balls and rim a nice ass. I have almost no interest in topping but for guys that are into ass play, I don't mind using fingers or toys as I suck you. I also could be open to some w/s with the right guy.

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Beyond that, there are a ton of different scenarios I'm open to. Here are a few, but there are definitely more, so if you have something specific in mind, let me know.

-Quick one-time head

-Anonymous head - either you wearing a blindfold or we set up a gloryhole, etc.

-Sucking you off on a regular basis

-A genuine friendship with benefits, we hang out as buddies, go for drinks, see movies, etc. but in private, I'm your personal (and private) oral slave.

-My absolute ideal scenario is that same FWB scenario, but with a guy who is secure enough in his sexuality and his decision to be sucked off by a guy that he convinces some of his other straight friends to get involved, and he shares/pimps my mouth out to them, or maybe I belong to them as a group and service them solo or in a group whenever they want (though I realize that's highly unlikely to happen).

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So... if any of this sounds like you, send me a private message and let me know your thoughts, what type of situation you might be into, etc. Pics would be good as well. Sorry for the long post, but I've given this a lot of thought and I'm eager to find the right situation. Be forewarned that I'm not a "now or never" kind of guy, so if you message me asking me to come over right this second, it probably won't happen. I'm eager, but not desperate. I'm not a flake, but let's chat for a minute, talk about what we both are looking for and discuss logistics, etc. If it's a fit, I'm committed to making it happen. As long as those initial conversations and first time go well, I have no problems being "on call" to service you as often as you want, maybe even daily, with short notice - we just need to make sure we're on the same page first.

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Also, and I know this will disappoint many men who read this far and are thinking "hmm, I could maybe be open to that", but I am not trans/CD. Honestly, I'm not really even very feminine. I'm a more masculine guy, I have facial hair...I'm just very submissive. But again, I'm looking for the type of guy that isn't into men in the first place, let alone "my type". I know it's easier for straight men to entertain the idea of a man blowing them if it's a super fem twink type of guy or cross-dresser (my inbox is full of these questions), but that just isn't me. If you can see past that, maybe we can have some fun.

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And as slutty as this post is, I don't actually sleep around a lot. I want to be slutty, but responsibly, within a controlled set of circumstances, hence this post looking for a regular thing. I am tested regularly (and can provide proof) and am on PrEP (Pre-exposure-prophylactics for HIV prevention). I expect you to be STD free as well.

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I don't anticipate a lot of quality responses, but I know these kind of men are out there, as I've had similar experiences in the past, so it's worth a shot!