Given the pandemic, I'm not looking to meet up right away. But I'd love to start chatting over Reddit, text, etc., to plan for a time to meet.

I am a 33-year-old submissive guy with very little sexual experience. I am technically not a virgin, but only technically: I once penetrated a woman for all of 10 seconds before she asked me to pull out. (She was not into “vanilla” sex.) I’ve gone down on a couple of women, and I’ve had a handful of make-out sessions. But aside from those few fleeting encounters, most of my sexual experience to date has been in a BDSM context, mostly with professional dominatrices.

I am looking for a dominant woman or a couple willing to show me the ropes, literally and figuratively. I am especially interested in becoming proficient at oral sex. I've had a couple forced bi experiences and would love for that to be part of the dynamic. I really like what I call forced bi bartering — play with a woman that is conditioned on my pleasing her man. Other kink interests include bondage, pegging, light impact play, tease/denial, and mild sissification. My limits are scat, kissing or rimming a man, CBT, extreme pain, and blood. Weirdly, despite my interest in forced bi, I am not into humiliation. I would prefer not to be denigrated or humiliated for my lack of sexual experience.

While I'm primarily looking for kinky fun, I think all relationships are more meaningful if there is mutual affection and respect. I would love to be your friend and confidant — someone you can talk to, ask a favor of, and lean on for emotional support. If that means being boyfriend and girlfriend, I would be thrilled. If you're only interested in kink, that's fine too. If you are married or in a committed relationship, I expect that you will only play with your partner's permission. I don't want to be a party to cheating.

About me: I’m 5’8 and 150 pounds, and I am mainly attracted to people who are similarly height-weight proportionate. Non-kink interests include video games, baseball, movies, and dogs. I cannot host. Send me a message with a little about yourself (and your partner) if you think we might be compatible. One-liners and chat requests will be ignored.