Hi guys! Verity here, back with another guide to better success with our subreddit. This guide is aimed at male participants who are looking for a female partner, which is the bulk of our subscribers.

Remember that for most girls here, there are three standards you're probably trying to meet: personality, appearance, and dick size. Today we're going to analyze those three things, what you can do about them, and how they play into each other.

1 | Appearance: Don't just assume you can't do much here. You CAN take steps to up your game.

• First, make sure you're taking some good pictures. They should be well lit, not taken in a dark bedroom in front of your computer. You should smile. Why would you mean mug it when you're trying to get a girl to like you?

• Second, make sure your physical hygiene is up to snuff. Wash your hair, have a clean face. If you have a beard, make sure it's not crazy unruly. If you have a pedo-stache or a little catepillar because you can't actually grow one, consider shaving that shit off.

• Third, try to get a few pictures from you doing different things! Standing with friends, alone at a gaming or sporting activity, etc. If you DO use a group selfie, make sure to blur out the faces of the people who aren't you... So we know who is who! Animal selfies are also a great positive generally.

• Fourth, you don't have to send straight up dick pics! In fact, I wouldn't always recommend it (see below section on Dicks for more). However, the more skin you show can be better. I DEFINITELY RECOMMEND labeling any pictures you send. Good examples: PG and PG13, Face / Body / Dick, me with friends, shirtless / work suit, etc etc.

Good pictures:

Good lighting

Full body but still anonymous

Undressed without being naked

Bitches love animals

Lazy bed pic with smile

Bad pictures:

Who is who?

Full face not in frame

Too dark to properly see

Pro tip: When sending pictures, please God send them up front. That way, if she's interested, she can just say "no thanks" immediately. If you wait until you guys start talking to send pics, and she's not interested, it makes things super awkward and hurtful.

2 | Dick Size: You are stuck with your size dick. No point crying about it. If your dick is on the smaller side, you need to OWN it. Don't lie and try to surprise the girl last minute. Here's some tips from a dude with a small dick.

Additionally, regardless of dick size, there are do's and don't's for taking pictures of your cock. Here are some flattering pics you can take.

Good pics:

The ever famous grey sweatpants selfie

Dick with body still present

Obvious bulge while remaining pg-13

Not a big dick, but still a hot pic

Bad pics:

Just not flattering

Blurry and looks like a 'stolen' pic versus one he took himself

Way too close up

I do not recommend sending a straight up shot of just your dick unless she has asked for it. The above "bulge" pictures are much better to send.

You do not need a massive cock to get laid. If you truly have a much smaller than average dick, I highly suggest you (and all guys really) start looking up how to give oral. Seriously. This is the best thing any/all guys can do. There are plenty of how-to videos out there. You don't even need your mouth to make her cum, just like she can use her hands or mouth to make you cum.

Again, I'm not the expert, but here's a quick guide to oral and another one If you can make her cum and keep her satisfied, she's a lot more likely to want to suck your cock. Additionally, she's a lot more likely to want to come back for more!

I've played with a few guys who had huge dicks and six packs... regardless of how hot they are, if they don't seem interested in making me happy, I don't go back for seconds.

3 | Personality, to me, is more important than physical appearance or dick size. I'm not saying the other two are entirely negated, because that's not true. I still want a guy to be attractive / cute / hot. However, if I have to choose between the ultra-hottie gym rat who seems blah or the average guy who is super funny and sweet, guess who I'm choosing?

A good personality is fairly universal. Women typically like kind men who are respectful. Other useful traits: intelligent, funny, charming.

Being kind and being respectful require no prerequisite talent. Here's some tips.

• If a girl sends you some pictures, compliment her, dummy! Don't lie if you're not into her (you can always politely turn her down), but do make sure to tell her what you like.

• Ask her about herself. What is she looking for specifically? Does she want to be in charge or let you take the lead? Does she like it on the rougher side, or gentle? What does she need to be comfortable with you meeting? Does she have any hard limits (e.g., name calling, forced gagging, etc)?

• If she doesn't respond, please don't send more than ONE follow up message. If she's not responding, chances are she's already found someone else or she's not interested. Don't make her feel awkward. I personally feel TERRIBLE when guys send me a picture and I'm not interested and I tell them and they get aggressive or hurt by it.

• Don't be a dick if she turns you down. This should be common sense. If you start into her, telling her she's a dumb whore or cunt, we will ban you if she shares those PMs with us. Running her off of this subreddit for good just because she didn't want you is an awful waste.

• Share what you're into! You need to be able to have a normal conversation with her. Particularly for playdates where you want to have 2-3 rounds, you need to occupy that in-between refractory period time. Are you both into videogames? Horror movies? The plight of the southern farmer? Whatever it is, share a bit about yourself upfront.

That's it for today! I hope this helps someone out there to be less socially awkward and find a willing mouth for their dick. ☺️ If you have any questions, please feel free to comment at me below OR find me on our new Discord!

Edit for disclaimer: pictures were all found in random places on the internet. If you object to your photo here being displayed, please PM me.