I already posted this on r/virginityexchange, but I figured I would try here as well. So here is essentially a repost from that post. Hello fellow redditors, I am here once again trying things out once more. As evident in my post history, I have posted not only in this sub multiple times, but others pertaining to gaining sexual experience, but to no prevail. I have talked with some women on here after posting, but most of the time, the conversation dwindles, or there isn't any mutual attraction it seems. I know that being a virgin at 22 isn't all that bad, but I do feel like I have an underlying pressure to lose it. Yes there is a bit of pressure, but it is also something that I want, as I feel building the experience will help with my confidence. As a 6'3" larger man, around 300 lbs, I have had quite a lot of social anxiety and lack of confidence surrounding my weight and appearance. Of course this is something that I am always working on. With gaining more experience, I hope that this will help with my confidence. Anyways, enough rambling, time to get down to brass taxes. Whether we start off small with kissing and cuddling, or something else, I ultimately want to gain the most amount of experience we are both comfortable doing. Having someone more experienced than me would be ideal, as there would be someone who would be able to teach me more, but I am fine if you are a virgin as well. Of course, I would also like to talk about who we are as people and see if there is an overall connection before anything is even done. If we mutually decide that we shouldn't do anything, I am totally fine with that. As for a bit more about myself, physically, I have long brown hair, and a beard that I try to keep maintained, but as with life, it can get away from me. I am a glasses wearer, and quite the nerd as well. I like comic book movies and shows (Marvel and DC), I strongly like video games, and I even built my own computer. Personality wise, I have always tried to be caring and considerate, as that is how I was raised, and wouldn't want it any different. I work full time right now, trying to figure out what I am passionate about so that I can continue my education. I like to think that I am hardworking and that I am there for whoever needs me in whatever situation I am needed in. Anyways, I hope that I can find someone that is willing to be there to teach me and is willing to spend the time with me. Hopefully we can do the things together haha, but overall I would just like someone that is understanding of all that I have mentioned and wants to help. Location is Portland, but I do not live there. I live around Newberg, and I travel to Wilsonville for work. I have my own car, so transportation is no issue to me. This may sound weird, but one of the things that I really look forward to is actually just cuddling someone and kissing them. Lastly, age doesn't truly matter to me; if you are the same age as me, or even in your 30s or 40s, I am perfectly find with it! Thank you for whoever decides to take the time to read this, and I look forward to talking with someone and seeing where things might lead!