Hey there stranger! This post may read more like a journal entry than a regular RAOBJ post so forgive me for being long-winded.

I was raised pretty conservative / religious and I de-converted fully only maybe a year ago. Because of the toxicity especially surrounding sexuality, I feel like I missed out on a lot of formative sexual experiences that you'd usually have in your early to mid 20s. That's my way of saying that I am a late bloomer, but also that I'm fully embracing my wholly horny sexual self with love!

One way I've learned to love my sexual self has been to write down my sexual bucket list, mostly to try to figure out what I like / don't like as I experience them and to chronicle the thought processes of my sexual side of myself. One item that's been high on the list of my list that I'm very excited to try is being deep-throated.

I'm always a big giver in bed and I've always really really enjoyed giving oral but I've never received oral that was super memorable. It felt more like a means to an end, aka to get me hard enough for sex. I've been browsing some of the subs related to it and I can't help but imagine what it would feel like to have a BJ where my partners lips goes significantly beyond just the head, where I can feel her throat on me and hear her get close to gagging but controlling it. Do you want to give me an experience that I'll remember well into my 60s?

A bit about what I look like physically, I'm 6' 165lbs. I'd say that I'm in the best shape of my life at the moment after having run a few ultra marathons (50mi being the longest) over the summer / fall alongside multiple mountaineering and backcountry ski trips. I have brown skin and black curly hair. I get told often that my smile is infectious. I'm also a bit on the larger side between my legs. I’m not sharing this to show off, but rather with the understanding that it may not be for everyone especially for deepthroating. I have a few nsfw pics on my profile and happy to share more.

In terms of my personality I'm generally an optimist. I tent to assume the best of people unless proven wrong. I try to keep things fun and light. I don't take myself too seriously, I like to laugh a lot but also open for deeper more meaningful conversations.

In terms of logistics, I live alone in Fremont and open to connections ideally in Seattle proper but also open to the larger metro area. I'm recently tested clean and expect the same from you. I don't do drugs besides an occasional beer or an edible every now and then. I would also love to get a coffee or a drink with you for a vibe check. Happy to exchange pictures before we meet too to make sure we're both attracted to each other.

Thanks for making it all the way till the end. I am not entirely sure if anything is coming out of this but the optimist in me has a good feeling about it! Side note. I'm also very down to help you with any bucket list if you had any too!