I had initially posted on the RAOMD thread, but the success story seems better suited for this thread because of how things worked out.

For some context, I've been a long-time lurker (about a year) and have posted many times on both threads. Like most guys, many of my posts went ignored or I was messaged by scammers or fake profiles. There were a few women that reached out but eventually flaked, ghosted me, or said I wasn't their type. I'm 5'6", 150lbs, slim/athletic, and Asian. This didn't deter me and I continued to post, holding out hope it would eventually happen for me one day.

That day eventually came when a nice person reached out to me expressing her need to satisfy her sexual frustration. I responded explaining my own frustrations, but she quickly apologized and said she acted out of impulse and no longer wanted to meet a stranger on reddit. This is where things took a turn (for anyone seeking their first success, please note this part of my story), I sent her a lengthy but well thought out response expressing my own hesitation with meeting a stranger. I told her I felt I had no other avenues to meeting people since I was very self-conscious and struggled with my self-esteem. I simply told her that I completely understand and that she didn't have to apologize for wasting my time or getting my hopes up. Things happen. This soon turned into a week-long back and forth with general chat mixed with some spicy talk. We eventually verified each other through a series of photos, calls, and facetimes.

And it finally happened. We set a date to meet this morning at a local coffee shop. To protect her privacy, she used a throwaway account and asked me to post this story to encourage others. We had already discussed boundaries previously and had no expectations beforehand. Things started off very casual with discussing weekend plans and the holidays over some coffee and tea. We then decided to take a stroll around the block as we continued to speak. The chemistry was definitely there, and we both knew it. She couldn't hold back and blurted out that she wanted to kiss my lips. I took her hand we and dipped into a small, secluded alley way (it led to the back of a business that was only opened during even hours and there were no cameras). We proceeded to make out intensely and she asked if she could verify my...you know. She proceeded to stroke me as we made out and I played with her breasts. I undid my pants and as she pulled me out, she couldn't resist and just knelt down before going right to work. I'm not the biggest, but I was the biggest she's ever been with.

She was very slow and sensual about it and took her time. She didn't rush and genuinely enjoyed every second of it. The hottest part was her unbuttoning her top and pulling out her breast as she sucked. I could tell she had a lot of pent-up sexual energy. I really wanted to taste her as well since I initially posted on the RAOMD thread, but unfortunately she wore some leggings and pants over them since it was cold. She told me she was lusting for me bad, so she didn't care about being eaten out. She grabbed onto my thighs with both hands and forced as much down her mouth as she could until she gagged and coughed, which we both found hot. She did it over and over again while kissing and licking up and down the shaft in between gags. It was one of the sexiest sights I've ever seen. She eventually asked me to cum on her chest and I happily obliged. I came all over her chest and she was kind enough to suck me clean before using her fingers to scoop as much off her chest and into her mouth as she could. It was so hot watching her do this so eagerly as if she was starving for my cum. She licked and sucked on her fingers one last time before buttoning up.

I walked her to her car, and she gave me a kiss goodbye before we went about our days. We will definitely be meeting up again for more future fun. It was definitely worth the wait to find the right person. Don't get discouraged guys, timing is everything!