I've long adored women who embrace sluttiness, whether secretly or out in the open. Whenever I've connected with such women online one of my favorite things to do has been to deeply quiz them about their activities. It's not just about getting stories for me, it's about digging into their mind and finding what makes them tick, what drives them to be who they are.

I'm looking for you if you'll get off on being treated like a toy to be used, taking direction, and being put under a sexual microscope. What I want to do is exactly what's in the title. Plenty of spanking can definitely be involved, and I'm open to adding other things as well.

About me: I am clean and in shape, and I ask that you be the same. I'm 6'1", lean and muscular, with a large dark beard (women who don't like facial hair, I'm not for you). I don’t look like a model and I’m not asking for you to, but I’m not interested in making connections with someone who doesn’t take care of herself. I have a stable job and a place of my own, but for the sake of discretion I’d like us to make arrangements other than the use of either of our own places, at least initially. If you’d like a more comprehensive idea of everything I’m into, there’s a kink list posted on my profile that you can check out.

I’m not too worried about what your particular life situation is, and you can be very up front with me about whatever it is that you want out of this; there’s nothing you can tell me that I would judge you for, and if our interests don’t align properly I’d rather we find that out right away. Traveling within a reasonable distance is an option for me under the right circumstances, so feel free to message even if you're not right in my back yard.

When we first connect, I’d like to start by simply chatting to find out if we are on the same page and have chemistry, and I find reddit’s inbox an annoying way to try to have a conversation, so I would strongly prefer to use reddit chat or take it somewhere else like Discord (or I’ll accept Kik if you’d prefer that, even though I think it sucks.) I certainly don’t mind getting an initial message any particular way you’d like to send it, though.

If you do think we might be a good match, please send me a message with some details about yourself and what caught your interest. I’m a lot less likely to respond to messages like “hey saw your post and I’m interested” because it’ll be hard for me to believe you’re really serious.