Basics: Ideally, I'd like a relationship that's vanilla on the surface - dates, movie nights, wine, walks in the park, cuddling, hanging with friends, etc. And if we really click, then maybe something long-term…marriage, family, etc. But also one that pushes boundaries in terms of power dynamics and kink exploration. I'm 5'9", average body, 210lbs, cute.

One possible scenario:

My partner and I are in a sissy cuckolding relationship with the goal of long-term and seem mostly "vanilla.” But at home, I’m fully “feminized” - dressed fem, wearing makeup, and locked in permanent chastity (let out to clean weekly). Our sex life is making out, intimacy, cuddling, getting ready together, using toys/strap on each other, finding and being used by hung doms together, aftercare, and more cuddling. Maybe we go all in on the dynamic for a month, then 3, then 6, then a year, and at a certain point (when engaged?) we both fully commit to the dynamic permanently, with few or no exceptions. And my partner loves having her sissy wifey as her bestie and long-term partner...

Or maybe...

My partner and I are emotionally exclusive. I'm the sweet, nice, romantic boyfriend - dates, cuddles, wine and movie nights, hanging out with mutual friends, etc. But she has a "Dom" on the side who she would never date. But she loves submitting to a few times per week. Her strict rule is that she and I can have sweet/gentle sex. And she saves everything dirty and kinky for other men. We’re totally into each other romantically, but she really only likes being used by 9in muscley/alpha men. Of course, she would always come back to my apartment for clean-up, wine, and a massage. But she’s more the jealous type and absolutely requires that I stay sexually and emotionally loyal to her.

Say hi if of interest!