I am an intelligent, driven man who is looking for a similarly well-educated, driven, and kinky partner. I am in touch with my emotions, kind, patient, curious, and fun-loving.

Outside of the bedroom I am intelligent, educated, and insatiably curious. I enjoy cooking, experimenting with, and learning about, new foods, flavors, and cultures. I am in continuous pursuit of practical knowledge and skills and love to work with my hands. I would much rather take the time to learn about, and spend money on equipment for, building/producing something myself than pay someone else to do it for me. I am a light-hearted goofball to my core with deep affection for stupid jokes, making others laugh, and appreciating life's little quirks. I am physically imposing at 6'1", 240lb with broad shoulders and dark (mixed white/middle eastern) features. I enjoy powerlifting, yoga, hiking, snowboarding, and cycling. I'm a punk at heart, but am outwardly a chickenshit conformist these days. I consider myself to hold progressive principles and do everything I can to give voice to the underrepresented. 95% of my media consumption is comedic, ranging from IASIP (of course), Workaholics, and Bob's Burgers to LPOTL, Stand-Up Specials (Typically in the Bill Burr/Lewis Black vein), and Curb Your Enthusiasm. If it matters to you I am childfree.

In the bedroom I am very open minded, somewhat hedonistic, and simply enjoy the connection and trust involved in passionate, energetic, rough, kinky activities of all persuasions. I have a post in another subreddit which goes into more depth about my kinks, but find it important to emphasize that I am more concerned with who you are and how we connect than a checklist of kinks. I enjoy eager, intelligent partners who can challenge me and have their own personality.

I'm open to anything from an FWB to a lasting relationship, and quite happy to go with the flow and see how our connection develops. I am not particularly interested in one-off interactions as I find it difficult to develop the sort of trust and connection which I enjoy. I am also open to connections with couples, though not explicitly looking for such (and tend towards monogamy in more serious relationships). I am located outside of Santa Fe and would prefer to meet people within an hour or two (or who travel to the area regularly).

Hopefully I've caught your eye! If you think we share similar values regarding communication, character, and a desire to build a fun, goofy, committed, and severe relationship with one another please reach out - I'd love to get to know you!