hey everyone - this is a long post but if reading isn't your thing: TL;DR - DM me if you're ok w me being in an open relationship and you love cuddles, bonus if you're asian too or if you love being tied up.

This post is for you if you want a soft dom who will: - put your pleasure first - spend so much time giving you headpats and cuddles that you'll think aftercare is the main event (why shouldn't it be?) - guide you in your kinks and submission with patience and compassion - will let you be vulnerable in a safe place - give you non-stop compliments and sweet affirmations - reward you all the time, sometimes too much (too much of a good thing can't be that bad.... right?) - occasionally tie you up and facefuck you (only if you want to)

I don't mind if you're overly clingy: I will cuddle you regardless.
I don't mind if you're reserved and quiet or bubbly and jovial: I WILL cuddle you regardless.
I don't mind if you're confident and outgoing, or introverted and shy: I WILL CUDDLE YOU REGARDLESS.
I don't mind whatever personality you have (as long as it's not toxic/full of red flags): JUST LET ME CUDDLE YOU DAMNIT!

Here's more about me, if you haven't been put off by my aggressive need for cuddles - I am: - 25 - 176cm tall, ~65kg (on the slim side but I've been trying to put on some muscle recently) - Asian (ancestry from china, grew up in singapore) - Fluent in English (hopefully this doesn't come as a surprise otherwise I'd have to start taking creative writing classes again), decent in Mandarin, beginner in Japanese - In an open relationship - Happy to trade pics in DMs. If you send me a pic I'll send one back. Otherwise you can ask me to send first, I don't mind.

On to the more juicy info: - My main kinks: light bondage and facefucking, but not a requirement - My other kinks: forced orgasms, orgasm denial, giving orders, light spanking and choking ( general Dom-type stuff, nothing too wild or extreme) - If you have kinks not on my list, I'm always down to try new things - your pleasure comes first.

Here's some of my preferences, but these are not at all dealbreakers. Bonus points if you: - are east asian - are short/petite/both - are around my age or younger - have similar kinks to me, or are willing to experiment

And finally some practical info: - I'll be in London for a couple days next week, but I'm normally based in Manchester - I'm open to travelling to meet you if you're within the UK - I can host or go to you, or get a hotel if that's what you prefer

And that's it, folks! If you've read up to this point, congrats on surviving my long-winded-ass post, and drop me a DM if you're interested!

TL;DR once again: DM me for cuddles, soft D/S, more cuddles, maybe some spicy tied-up facefucking if you're down, even more cuddles, forced orgasms, did I mention cuddles

p.s. even if I'm not your type or vice versa, feel free to drop me a DM just to chat - I'm always open to making new friends or talking about literally anything

p.p.s. I give killer massages, if you have stiff shoulders I'll loosen them up in no time :)